With the development of society, the number of single people is increasing day by day. Many people have a sympathetic attitude towards them, believing that they are helpless in their lives due to the lack of marriage and children, especially in their later years.
However, singles themselves have different views on this. In the case of Mr. Qin, although he is single, he believes that there is also a joy in living alone. He said that as long as he doesn't think deeply, his single life is actually very easy, without too much pressure and burden.
The following is Mr. Qin's original words:
Many people sympathize with my situation, but I don't understand why they are. Are they sympathetic to me for not having to pick up and drop off my children after work, or for returning home without the warmth of home?
If that's what they're sympathetic to, then I don't think so. Because in terms of quality of life, I'm actually more at ease than them.
As a single person, the rest of the time is completely your own, except for working hours. I personally love fishing, and I often fish on weekend nights and don't go home until dawn to catch up on sleep.
If I was married and had a family and children, such a lifestyle would certainly not be possible.
Currently, I live in an old house left by my parents and have not thought about buying a house. After paying for my daily living expenses, the remainder of my salary is used for leisure and recreation, which also allows me to travel often and purify my mind in nature.
I enjoy this life because it is stress-free and burden-free.
Of course, this lifestyle also has its drawbacks, such as questions about future generations, and the loneliness that may be faced in old age. These questions can be unsettling when thought about.
However, I chose not to think about these issues. Ever since I became single, I've automatically blocked these kinds of questions.
Worrying too much about these issues will only reduce the happiness of life and will not do any real good.
Frankly, I'm not afraid of the so-called "last resort". For me, the presence or absence of offspring is not the key to the problem. Even if I get married and have offspring, there's no guarantee that this bloodline will last forever.
Therefore, this problem is completely negligible.
As for the future pension problem, there is no need to worry too much. When you are still in good health, you should enjoy life to the fullest; If you're not in good health, then let it be, because everyone ends up the same.
Some people may feel lonely living alone, but at least so far, I haven't felt lonely.
When I want to be quiet, I stay alone, whether it's watching TV or playing games; When I want to have a good time, I invite a few friends to have a drink and chat.
In my circle of friends, there are also a few single friends. Those of us who are single are very happy with the current state of life and do not feel that there is anything wrong with being single.
Of course, our reputation may not be very good, but our quality of life is definitely not bad.
We call ourselves "happy bachelors".
The real life of a single person
Singles have always been a group of people who are sympathetic to society, and it is widely believed that their lives are full of pity and sorrow.
But in reality, not all singles are eager for marriage.
In this era of popular swinging and lying flat, more and more singles are beginning to adapt to the trend and enjoy their single life.
Because as a single person, you don't need to bear the heavy pressure of your family, and you don't need to face the huge pressure of life.
For individuals who are only self-sufficient, such a life is undoubtedly easy and easy. This content is a fictional short story, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, all characters, places and events are artistic processing, please read rationally, do not sit in the right seat.