Nowadays, more and more people are pursuing a minimalist life, but many people are pursuing a place life that is not to reduce consumption.Instead, take the minimalist life as a kind of show-off.
In fact, the real minimalist life is to restrain oneself and find a life state that suits oneself.
Since 30+, I have found a lifestyle that really suits me, and that is to start living a minimalist life.
My current life is really very nurturing.I feel better now than I was a few years ago.
Today, I would like to share with you my extremely simple life.
If you want to change your lifestyle, why not learn from me?
Many of my friends don't know how much they should spend each month, and they just blindly follow the trend.
Although money is not everything, when it comes to money, there is no money.It's really uncomfortable, so we must set our own consumption goals.
For example, if my monthly salary is 1000 yuan, I will take out 0 yuan for daily life, 2000 yuan is saved, and the remaining 0 yuan is used for daily expenses and emergency treatment.
Only when you have determined your own consumption goals can you reasonably plan your salary.
I find that everyone's desire to consume is particularly strong now, and they often follow the trend to buy and buy.
Seeing that others have things that they want to use, and even many things are more expensive,It may cost months of salary to buy, but people are still happy to eat these luxuries.
I found that this state of life is not suitable for us ordinary people.After all, excess consumption will lead us into the abyss of consumption trap.So we'd better keep our lives simple.
In terms of diet, reduce eating out, refuse to order takeout, and usually cook by yourself.
From the perspective of skin care, there is no need to buy too many skin care products, just choose the right one for you.
From the perspective of consumption, reduce your desire to shop,Cut back on unnecessary things to keep your consumption low.
From the perspective of buying clothes, when buying clothes, pay attention to the quality and materials of clothes.Don't just look at the style and price, it's better to choose clothes that suit you rather than blindly follow trends.
After the age of 30, I spend more and more time alone at home,Rejection of some unnecessary socialization, the whole person is immersed in the world of one person.
I've found that the cleanliness of our homes affects our physical and mental comfort.
If the house is dirty and messy, the mood at home will become very depressing.
So in order to make the home more minimalist and refreshing, I started to "break away".
Breaking away doesn't mean throwing away everything in the house.Instead, according to their actual situation, they will dispose of some useless or old western products to restore the home to a clean state.
Have you noticed that you have a lot of friends when you are young?But since I was 30 years old, I've started to streamline my network.
Don't contact some unnecessary friends, and don't participate in some meaningless dinners.
Usually after work, I will chat with a few friends, and a drink is actually more comfortable than attending a messy party.
After the classic interpersonal relationship, I found that good friends are not about the number, but about the quality.
If you have a lot of friends with me and wine,Then I advise you not to continue to associate with them, there is no point, it is just a waste of your enthusiasm.
Summary:
Many of my friends around me have asked me why I am getting better and better after the age of 30, but in fact, this is mainly due to the fact that I have found a lifestyle that really suits me. If you also want to have a good state of life, then you might as well try a minimalist life, which can really give you a different feeling.