A truly long-term intimate relationship must be mutual running-in, mutual adaptation, understanding, tolerance and love between the two parties.

Looking at the many loves around us, all the couples who come to the end are not how strong their economic strength is, not the powerful family background behind them, not each other's high education, not talented and beautiful, but precisely these characteristics that are most easily ignored by us.

In this world, the probability of the existence of those destined partners is almost 0, and what can be carried together to the end is nothing more than heart-to-heart, willing to adapt to each other, run in, and generate a steady stream of love on the basis of understanding and tolerance.

I have always felt that the greatest thing is love, two people from different families and different places, reunited together to become a new family, which requires the investigation of a lot of human good and evil, complex human relationships, male and female personalities and physical and psychological differences, in love may also be hurt, but also in the true sense of cultivation.

This is what is the love in the world, since ancient times, the love is the saddest, but the person who has passed the love pass is destined to no longer be an ordinary person, and his ideological realm will rise to a new height.

Love and marriage are two concepts, true love does not necessarily get married, and marriage does not necessarily mean true love, so if you want to be cautious about marriage, you must have a mature happiness evaluation system.

To put it simply, you can examine the other party's economic strength, you can also examine the other party's family situation, the three views are the same and not the same frequency, whether they are good or not, and you can even consider how the other party's parents behave.

To be selfish, you have to feel that after you have the other person, whether you are emotionally good or unstable, whether you become confident or inferior, and what level of emotional value is.

In love, you can pay attention to romance, pay attention to purity, and even don't need to be too rational, talk about ideals, talk about poetry and songs, talk about life, once you want to enter marriage, you have to be rational if you are not rational, because love alone cannot support marriage for a long time, after all, love has a time limit, especially in marriage.

If you want to be in love for a long time, joy and happiness are born from trivial days, in addition to love, you must also be able to be free to be yourself, and find longevity from tolerance, running-in, adaptation and self-love.

There is no such thing as a marriage made in heaven

Only by constantly running in to achieve the integration point of the three views and the same soul, and having a tacit understanding with each other, can it become the principle of stepping into marriage.

Jade is not sharpened, people are not harmonious for a long time, how can two people who quarrel on weekdays expect to enter marriage smoothly, even if they enter temporarily, most of them end in divorce.

The real cruelty of love is that it reaches its climax from the beginning.

In the future, no matter how you try to create romance, create surprises, and take great pains to add joy to life, the frenzy of love only has a peak, and after the peak, no matter how you go, it is going downhill.

A truly comfortable intimate relationship must be one that makes people feel free and happy, rather than tying each other, consuming each other, and intensifying each other's inner contradictions.

Whether it's friendship or love, all relationships are "if life is only as first seen", and then due to the wear-out of freshness, only plain and trivial, people who know how to maintain it well can naturally spend it steadily in the run-in, and people who don't know how to operate can only end in a broken relationship.

We are always used to focusing on the shortcomings and faults of others, and if the other person does not correct them, then you will be bored and angry from the bottom of your heart.

It is not so much that the essence of marriage is interests, but that the run-in is not good enough, and it is defeated by the true self in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Many people are not good at cooking, and they are not good at balancing life, career, and marriage, so they slander marriage.

Whether you get married or not is your own personal matter, you must think twice, don't see others submit the papers in advance, you also submit the papers in a hurry, and finally live unhappy in the marriage, but curse that marriage is an out-and-out trap.

To love someone who has the ability to love others

And don't love someone who is immature in mind and emotionally unstable.

Just imagine, if an adult can't even control his emotions, let alone talk about the "big war" after marriage, how terrible it is to launch a crazy person.

I often say that choice is greater than hard work, in fact, this principle is also used in marriage, choosing the wrong partner, the second half of the life is really a disaster, and the person who chooses the right marriage will have a happy life.

Some women don't have to do anything, marry a lover and be happy for a lifetime, while some women are kind by nature, but the suffering in the world does not fall, fate is like a dandelion, the wind rises and surges, the wind stops and rests, and it falls to the fat place to grow in the wind, and falls to the thin place to suffer for a lifetime.

In fact, this is also the ability to choose, and there are not a few people who will not choose the other half, especially when they are tempted by some people's rhetoric, lose their rationality in love, enter his trap, and lose their next life.

How do you choose? It's nothing more than going through more, seeing more people, and having rich social experience, how can you be easily fooled.

If you want me to say, choose those who have the ability to love others, those who live their lives well, and their inner energy will naturally not be bad, you have to feel the details, listen to the suggestions and evaluations of the people around you, don't feel that you are omnipotent, and you can easily handle each other.

Those who are often hurt by scumbag, they have a little bit of ego, especially in love, they completely lose their rationality, and they can't listen to the sincere words of their families and even good brothers and girlfriends.

As the saying goes, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, when someone around you advises you that the two of you are not suitable, you must stay sober, think twice, and get rid of the love brain.

Marriage is just once, don't treat it as child's play, and step into the white hall in a daze.

Love others and love yourself, wind and water, choose your other half carefully, after all, the mountains and rivers are long, and the long road of life is worse than death with a person you don't love.

You are worth more than a thousand flatters

Thousands of times to please ≠ love, ≠ love during the peak of hormones, your value matches his value to be considered a good marriage.

Do you know why there are so many licking dogs in the world? It is because they understand love as giving, thinking that crazy giving can impress each other in exchange for their own love.

Why do many young people get married and divorce in a hurry, because many of them don't think about what kind of partner to marry, and as a result, their parents with low cognition are forced to go on a blind date, thinking that they can get married if they are about the same.

As everyone knows, their children spend the rest of their lives in pain and regret, and some give birth to children, but in the end let the children bear everything.

A really good marriage is one that knows each other well, knows the best and the worst of each other, but still chooses to come together with him and walk side by side in the uncertain days ahead.

Two people understand and tolerate each other, do not be overly sensitive to each other's small shortcomings, do not interfere too much in some of each other's habits, and even respect each other's ideals and support them to become better.

If a person can live more and more like himself in marriage, then this marriage is happy, on the contrary, if a person lives less and less like himself in marriage, or even lives without himself, then this marriage must make your bravest choice.

If you really love someone and want to go on for a long time, then you have to abandon the so-called affection, and use your own value to attract, to achieve the same frequency resonance, magnetic field attract.

At all times, you have to learn to love yourself, and then to love others, don't cling to anyone, don't expect other people's shoulders to be your support, when you are on the way to the stars, your spirit and economy rise to another level, you establish a deeper connection with the future, in order to get closer to the moon in your heart step by step.