"Good man of Xi'an" Liu Pei

As the saying goes, Taoism teaches and educates people. However, in the view of Liu Pei, a "good person in Xi'an" and a teacher at Wanzi Middle School in Gaoling District, it should be "educating people and teaching", which is not a simple order adjustment, but a education-oriented preaching and teaching.

"Although I have only been with students for 15 years, what kind of impact can I bring to children is a lifelong thing." "I can't follow the children all the time, I just want to do my best to make them better and more positive." Liu Pei, who has been rooted in rural middle schools for nearly 0 years, has condensed his care for students bit by bit, and condensed into the affectionate name in the students' mouths - "Pei Ma".

Teachers should first "walk" into the hearts of students

In the autumn of 25, 0-year-old Liu Pei became a teacher at Wanzi Middle School in Gaoling District, leading two classes and a class teacher.

As soon as he walked out of the school gate, he had to manage a class of forty or fifty students, and Liu Pei, who felt the pressure, chose to use his majesty to "suppress" the students. But slowly she found that "strictness can only make students afraid of you on the surface, and if you really want to manage the class well and let the students really grow, the teacher must first 'walk' into the hearts of the students." Liu Pei said.

At this time, the experience of a student made Liu Pei start to think about what real education is and what a good teacher should bring to students.

"I took over a new class that year, and there was a girl in the class who was unusually 'quiet'. I hardly ever saw her talk to her classmates and teachers, and her eyes and movements always showed timidity and uneasiness. Liu Pei recalled. In order to find out the reason, one day after work, Liu Pei knocked on the door of the girl's house. The scene inside the door made Liu Pei stunned for a moment, the simple and messy yard, the potholed ground, the room full of corn, and the pungent smell of sheep dung...... Liu Pei said that at that moment, she was full of distress for this female student.

Later, Liu Pei learned that the girl's father was serving a prison sentence, her mother had run away from home, and the family only relied on her elderly grandparents to farm and raise sheep. "To my surprise, the old man did not complain, he was always full of confidence in his granddaughter's future, and firmly believed that 'knowledge can change destiny'." Liu Pei said that she decided at that time to sponsor the child.

Since then, Liu Pei's whole family has been interested in this girl. After work, Liu Pei often went to the girl's house to visit, and took her family to visit on weekends, and Liu Pei's lover also reminded her from time to time to subsidize the living expenses of the child. Before the high school entrance examination, she took the girl to her home to take care of her. Today, the girl has been admitted to the ideal high school.

"Education is a cause of 'benevolence and love for others', love is the soul of education, and there is no education without love." Liu Pei often encourages herself with this, "To be a teacher is to cultivate love, inspire love, and spread love with love." Our Wanzi Middle School is a rural school, and many of our students' family situations cannot be compared to those of urban students. I don't have much experience, only intentions. ”

As a homeroom teacher for 12 years, she traveled all over the students' homes

has been teaching for nearly 12 years, and Liu Pei has been a class teacher for 0 years. Liu Pei said, "Ordinary classroom teachers may pay more attention to children's grades, while class teachers can have a deeper understanding of each child's growth trajectory, and will think and pay attention to why some students behave this way in school, how to make children grow better, and other issues." ”

With these questions, Liu Pei visited the homes of every student in the class. "I got off work during the week, and I went to a few houses every day." In the interview, she confidently said: "As long as I have taken the class, I know the student's home address and family situation. When she encounters special students, she will also share the situation with other teachers, so that other teachers can better help students.

"Last week, I met a student at the street market that I had taken five or six years ago." During the interview, Liu Pei suddenly said excitedly. This Xiaoshan (pseudonym) classmate is the most troublesome and distressed among the students she has led, and the child who pays the most attention.

Xiaoshan has low self-esteem because of poor family conditions and poor personal hygiene. Liu Pei later went to visit the home and learned that a few years ago, the child's mother suddenly suffered from a mental illness, spent all the family's savings, and owed a lot of foreign debts. Ms. Liu said she couldn't say a word when she saw her family of three living in a room with only one bed and a collapsed sofa.

After returning to the class, Liu Pei found a reason to branch out of the hill and held a "special class meeting" for the classmates. Liu Pei said: "None of us can choose what kind of family we are born in. Let's swap roles, how do you feel? Kindness is the most basic bottom line of being a human being, and it cannot be broken at any time. ”

Now reunited in the bazaar, seeing the child's confidence and sunshine, Liu Pei said with emotion: "See you that day, the baby has grown up all of a sudden, tall and handsome." I also paid special attention to it, and he was neatly dressed and his shoes were clean. Hearing that the child is also working hard, Liu Pei feels that her hard work back then was not in vain.

To see the "shining point" in the student

"Five fingers stretched out are long and short, I will not use results as the only criterion to measure you, but I want to see the 'shining point' in you." This is what Liu Pei often says to students.

Liu Pei shared with reporters a small story from her work the day before. After an important exam, the students in the class are packing their things. A classmate packed up his things and saw that his schoolbag was dirty, and took a rag to carefully wipe the corners and corners of the schoolbag, Liu Pei immediately praised the child in front of the whole class, praising him for loving his mother very much. Looking at the surprised eyes of his classmates, Liu Pei explained with a smile: "You didn't wipe the schoolbag when it was dirty, did you take it home and let your mother wash it by default, but he wiped it himself, shouldn't we learn from him!" ”

A simple word of praise may be a ray of light shining into a child's heart. The next morning, this student, who usually does not have a very good academic performance, went uncharacteristically when he arrived at school, not only happily greeted the teacher, but also handed in his homework to Liu Pei for the first time. "I was still 'showing off' to my colleagues in the office this morning, this student handed in homework to any of you, and he handed it in to me!" The cheerful tone was full of heartfelt joy for the students' progress.

"With children, happy or angry, this kind of emotion is not felt in other industries. Especially when they come out of school and come back to see you or share your results with you on WeChat, that feeling of pleasure is unique to the profession of a teacher. As he spoke, Liu Pei opened WeChat and showed the reporter a message from a student: "My history grade is now the first in the class!" ”

In 2021 years, Liu Pei took the position of the school's director of teaching, and expanded her attention to students from one class to the whole school. "We have made a 'growth bag' for each student, focusing on the child's grades, physical issues, and especially mental health issues. We also screen our students every year to give a special focus on them. ”

"Xi'an Good People" and "Xi'an City Moral Model" ...... In the past two years, Liu Pei has been seen by more and more people. But she said, "I deserve these halos." The children give me much more feedback than I give them, and many teachers have been doing these things, but I was lucky to be seen. ”

(Reporter Liu Xueni, text/photo)