On the long and winding road of parenting, every parent has infinite expectations and expectations for their children's future.

We want them to be smart and successful academically, and we want them to be physically and mentally healthy and grow up happily. However, this deep love and expectation is often mixed with a lot of useless anxiety and anxiety.

These anxieties are like heavy shackles, which not only bind the hands and feet of parents, but also may affect the mentality of children and hinder their growth.

Anxiety often stems from the fear of the unknown and the pursuit of perfection. We worry that our children's academic performance is not good enough, that their future is not bright enough, and that we are not able to give the best of everything to our children.

So, we are constantly putting pressure on us to try to shape a "perfect" child through strict discipline and high expectations.

However, this practice is often counterproductive, not only depriving children of the space to grow freely, but also potentially leaving them mired in self-doubt and frustration.

In fact, every child is a unique individual, and they have their own pace and way of growth. As parents, we should learn to let go of those useless anxieties and accompany our children's growth with a more peaceful and inclusive attitude.

We need to believe that every child has the potential to be the best version of themselves, as long as we give them enough love, support and encouragement.

Having a relaxed, steady mindset is essential for children. Such a mindset can make them more confident in facing the challenges and difficulties in life, and enjoy the joy of growing up more calmly.

As the guide of the child's growth, our attitude and behavior will directly affect the child's mentality.

Therefore, we should strive to be the one who can give our children a sense of security and trust, so that they can bravely explore the unknown world with us.

Of course, letting go of anxiety doesn't mean letting things go and turning a blind eye. As parents, we still need to pay attention to our children's learning and living conditions, and give them the necessary guidance and help.

However, this attention and help should be based on understanding and respect, not on control and oppression. We want to respect children's individuality and choices, and encourage them to pursue their dreams and goals bravely.

In short, parents give up useless anxiety and let their children have a relaxed and stable state of mind, which is the best help for children.

Let us nourish the hearts of children with love and ignite the fire of their dreams with trust. On the road of growth, let us join hands and witness every progress and growth of our children.