In family education, the level of parents has a crucial impact on the growth and development of children. Due to their own limitations and lack of educational experience, some parents often develop some bad habits, which not only affect family harmony, but also delay their children's future. The lower the level of parents, the more they have these 3 bad habits, and they don't know how to delay their children's future.

1. Parents who lack self-restraint and low levels of control often lack the ability to self-discipline and control, and they are prone to lose their temper or scold their children when they are emotional or stressed. This behavior is not only psychologically traumatic, but also allows the child to learn to deal with problems in the same way as they imitate their parents. Affected by the bad emotions of parents for a long time, children may have psychological problems such as low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, etc., and in severe cases, it may even lead to behavioral deviations and criminal behavior.

2. Excessive spoiling and arrangementContrary to the lack of self-restraint and control, some parents will overspoil and arrange their children's lives out of love and concern for their children. They make decisions for their children, solve problems, and even complete homework and chores for their children. This behavior can cause children to lose the ability to think and act independently, resulting in children being unable to face problems and challenges independently as they grow up. At the same time, over-indulgence and arrangement can also make children become dependent, self-centered, and lack of responsibility and self-discipline. 3. Lack of effective communication and communicationGood communication and exchange is the foundation of family education, but some parents often lack effective communication and communication with their children due to busy work and limited education level. This behavior can lead to a child's lack of attention and understanding from their parents, and the ability to establish a healthy parent-child relationship. At the same time, the lack of effective communication and communication will also prevent children from learning to express their emotions and needs, affecting children's social skills and interpersonal relationships.

The above 3 bad habits are not shared by all low-level parents, but these habits do have a negative impact on the growth and development of children. Therefore, as a parent, you should avoid these habits as much as possible.

2. Learn self-control and emotional management: When facing children's problems and challenges, parents should remain calm and rational, and avoid using violence and abusive methods to solve problems. At the same time, parents should also learn to control their emotions and avoid passing on negative emotions to their children. 0. Cultivate children's independence and autonomy: Parents should encourage children to think and act independently, and cultivate children's independence and autonomy from an early age. When appropriate, parents should let their children face problems and challenges on their own, allowing them to learn and grow in practice.

3. Strengthen communication and communication with children: Parents should take time out to communicate and communicate with their children as much as possible to understand their children's emotions and needs. In communication, parents should respect their children's opinions and ideas and encourage them to express their own opinions and ideas. At the same time, parents should also convey the correct values and outlook on life to their children through communication. In conclusion, home education is a long-term and arduous task that requires parents to make continuous efforts and improve their own education level. Only through continuous learning and practice can parents better guide and help their children grow, so that they can become healthy, happy, and accomplished people.

[Discussion: Do you think you have these bad habits?] 】

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