Growth is the process of constantly overcoming yourself.
Life is the process of subtraction along the way.
1. Quit your feelings
It is important not to have emotional troubles. No matter what happens, don't worry about it, or don't worry about it.
We should not be upset and sad, but should fully reflect on it, and then act with a new mental outlook, so as to turn negative depression and troubles into motivation for a new future.
In life, sorrows, failures, and troubles are inevitable. But there's no point in dwelling on what has already happened.
The negative emotions of frustration and worry can affect mental health and even lead to physical illness, which can lead to unhappiness in one's life.
So,Now that something bad has happened, don't be depressed and sad all the time, but embrace new thinking and take new action.
It is true that we should reflect on the mistakes or mistakes that have already occurred, but we do not need to repeatedly criticize ourselves emotionally and emotionally, otherwise it will only increase the psychological burden.
The right way is to think rationally, correct mistakes, and then act on them.That's how life can be exciting.
2. Quit complaining and harassing
“Things that you don't think about in your heart don't come out in your life. It is the things that are portrayed in one's own mind that incur all happiness or misfortune.”
What you think in your heart will lead your life in a good direction or a bad direction.
thereforeIn order to have a good life, you must constantly think about the right mindset.
Stepping into society and working in the company where I first worked made me understand that no matter how bad the environment is, no matter how desperate the situation is, what ifJust blindly complaining, escaping from reality, hesitating and hesitating, then, life will never take a turn for the better.
At the same time, I also understand that as long as I like my work from the bottom of my heart, ignite the enthusiasm in my heart, forget to sleep and eat, concentrate and devote myself to it, then the work will become interesting, you can achieve excellent results, and your life will change in a bright direction.
Whether it is good or bad, no matter what kind of situation you are in, never complain or complain, look forward with a positive attitude, work hard at all times, and continue to work hard, which is the most important thing.
3. Quit self-interest
People can be broadly divided into self-centered, self-interested people, and opposite, altruistic people.
The altruistic heart of caring for others, even if we try to carry it forward, is often difficult to achieve. However, as long as the self-interest is suppressed, the altruistic mind will naturally manifest itself.
If our mind is a hollow sphere, then generally speaking, this container is filled with self-interest as long as we are good.
ButIf we try to reduce this kind of self-interest, there will be a corresponding space in the mind, and what fills this space must be altruism.
This is called "contentment" in Buddhism. Because the desire for self-interest swells, and it swells infinitely.
If you wantTo restrain it, it is necessary to treat others with a "content" mentality and stand in the world. In this way, self-interest can naturally be suppressed, and altruism can be presented.
4. Quit self-limitation and lack of self-confidence
The possibilities are endless for each of us. If you want to achieve great things in life, you need to deeply understand the meaning of this sentence.
The central idea is that "When drawing a blueprint for one's life, we must first look at the problem from the perspective of development, and believe that people's abilities will continue to grow and improve”。
In reality, most people simply jump to the conclusion that "I can't do this". They use their current abilities as a benchmark for judging.
Many people, in their own work and life, come to the conclusion that "I can't do it, I can't do it." This is because they judge whether they "do" or "can't" based on their current abilities.
However, man's abilities are not static, he will continue to grow and progress in the direction of the future.So, in a few years, you can do things that are simply not possible today.
personIn the future, we will definitely improve and improve.
In fact, when you look at the work you are doing today, a few years ago, you would think, "I can't do it, I can't do it, I can't do it." ”
But today, don't you think it's a simple job? Because you're already at it.
Humans are animals that progress in all aspects. That's how God created man—and that's how we should think. "Because I haven't learned, I don't have knowledge, I don't have technology, so I can't."
It's not okay to say this, but you should think like this:Because I haven't learned, I don't have the knowledge, I don't have the technology. However, I have the motivation and confidence to do it next year.
And from that moment on, work hard to learn, acquire knowledge, and master technology. In the future, the power hidden in me will surely bear fruit. I'm sure I'll be able to grow.
There are not many young people who have a negative attitude towards life and think that their life will end in inaction.
However, when faced with the difficult problems of reality, most people tend to retreat and deny themselves like this.
We must change this negative attitude and believe in ourselves: "I should be able to do it" and "I should be able to do it if I work hard, even if we encounter difficulties and obstacles".
So, never say things like "you can't do it yourself".The first thing to do is to believe in yourself.
5. Quit the arrogant attitude
The source of cultivating a sense of gratitude and living a good life is humility.
When I was younger, I used to say things like "humility is a talisman". If you have a humble heart, you can stay away from disasters, just like having a talisman for life. That's what I'm trying to say.
Not only to others, but also to oneself and the environment in which we live, we must not forget to be humble at all times, and we must always warn ourselves to remain humble.This is important.
When things go a little well, coupled with the praise of the people around them, the heart will be shaken, like a kite with a broken string, flying everywhere, this is the nature of some people.
If this continues, we will unconsciously become arrogant and adopt an arrogant attitude towards others.
The culprits that lead life astray are not necessarily failures and setbacks, but often successes and praises.
Humility is the most important element of personality.We often say that the person's personality is noble, which means that the person's personality has the virtue of modesty.
Humility is important. This is not just for the arrogant people who have succeeded in their success, but also for those who are humble, but also for managers to maintain humility throughout the entire process of growing a small business into a large business.
When I was young, I learned an old Chinese saying, "Humility is blessed." If you are not humble, you cannot be happy, and those who can be happy are humble.
In this world, there are people who use forceful means to exclude others, and they seem to be successful, but they are not. The real successful people, although they have fire-like enthusiasm, fighting spirit and fighting spirit, they are also humble and cautious people.
Modesty and modesty are very important qualities in life.
6. Quit laziness and low level diligence
The so-called life is a drama in which you play the leading role.
However, in real-life drama, we not only play the role, but also write the script.
In general, we know the ins and outs of the story and the ending of the story from the beginning, but the drama of life is different, and how the play is written and acted depends on ourselves.
It has been said that our destiny is predestined at birth. But I don't agree with that. I believePeople can change their destiny by improving their minds and ways of thinking.
It's not that you have to fight against "fate" in vain, but in order to play the protagonist of your own hopes, you have to write the script well. To do this, you need to temper your heart and spirit.
And only by doing this as soon as possible can we take control of the direction of our lives as soon as possible. In this way, every day and every moment of our life can be more sincere and fulfilling.
At various stages of life, there will be many opportunities for turning points.Only by taking the initiative to pursue opportunities and working hard can we seize the opportunities.