Most women enter marriage in order to find a place in life, to make their lives full of security, starting a family is the direction of men's efforts, and running a family to make marriage full of happiness may be a woman's instinct. However, after marriage, for various reasons, it is inevitable that women will be dissatisfied with their marriage. So what are the manifestations of a woman's dissatisfaction with her marriage after marriage? How can a woman make her marriage happy after marriage? Next, we will introduce them one by one for your reference.
Five major manifestations of a woman's dissatisfaction with her marriage after marriage
1. No longer care about men's rights and wrongs, and no longer care about men's well-being
If a woman cares about her husband, she will always put more energy on this man, care about his various performances, and pay attention to his whereabouts, instead of sitting back and ignoring it completely. Unless she no longer loves this man or is completely distracted from this man, she will no longer ask about the man's rights and wrongs, don't care about this man, and don't ask for warmth. Women are very concerned about a man's frequent late and late nights, and when she is not interested in this, it may mean that something is wrong. Therefore, when a man feels completely free and free in his marriage, you have to be careful, this is not necessarily a good thing, you should not be proud of how generous and trusting your woman is to you, but nine times out of ten this woman may have been distracted from you.
2. At every turn, he will run to his mother's house to complain to his mother's family
When a woman is dissatisfied with her marriage and dissatisfied with her husband, she no longer looks at the marriage with peace of mind, but tries her best to stay away from this besieged city, and before she can get rid of it completely, she will return to her parents' house alone or with her children several times, and pour bitter water on her mother's family. will pay attention to the various wrongs of his man, count down his husband's shortcomings and badness, and push all the reasons for his depression and irritability to his husband, in order to seek the opinions of his family and win the understanding and support of his family.
3. Secretly hiding private money often says that you don't have enough money
Once a woman is separated from her husband and doesn't want to live a good life with this man, she will secretly try to hide a large amount of private money, or find a way to transfer property. Then Akari will complain to her husband about how much her daily expenses are, how much money she doesn't have enough money to spend, so as to cover up her hiding money, or more to get financial support from her husband. When her savings reach a certain amount, when her distraction from her husband reaches a certain level, she may take the initiative to have a showdown and make a decision to break up.
4. Secretly instill in the children that the husband is not a good father if he has no sense of responsibility
For a woman with her own children, if this woman often instills in her children when she usually teaches her children: Your father is not a good man, your father has no sense of responsibility, and your father is not a qualified good father, it means that this woman is distracted by her husband, and secretly instills a bad image of a father in her children behind her back, it is definitely not as simple as venting her anger for a while, she obviously wants to further erase the existence of this man in her heart by creating alienation between the child and her father, and maintain a certain sense of distance from him.
5. Constantly spreading your own man's flaws to relatives and friends has many shortcomings
When a woman is very separated from a man, she will no longer think about his good things, but will completely think about his bad things, she will choose not to give him a good word in front of any relatives and friends, and she will deliberately spread the negative energy of this man. Her purpose in wanting to stink this man in front of her relatives and friends is nothing more than to prove that she no longer loves this man, and that she is going to part ways with this man, indicating that she has been very distracted from this man.
Top 3 tips for a woman's happiness after marriage
1. Cultivate harmonious living habits with your husband
No matter what kind of living habits a woman has before getting married, or diligent, or lazy, or going to bed early, or playing, once she gets married, she lives with her lover, and two people with different living habits live together, and there will be some unaccustomed habits at the beginning, and even contradictions and frictions will occur for this. At this time, women need to change their mentality as soon as possible, if their husbands are dissatisfied with their bad habits, they should try to correct them, and if they are not used to their husband's bad habits, they should try to gently remind and help the other party to correct them. It is in this kind of mutual run-in and adjustment that the husband and wife life find the most suitable habit mode for both parties to live together, and once the woman develops a more harmonious living habit with her husband, it will lay a good foundation for a happy marriage.
2. Cut off contact with former friends of the opposite sex
As soon as a woman gets married, she must immediately assume the new role of wife, and this role must always put the family first, no matter how many friends of the opposite sex or confidantes a woman has before marriage, she must basically cut off contact and contact with them after marriage. Because all men who love their wives want the woman to belong completely to themselves after marriage, both physically and mentally, and do not allow his wife to have any traces of intercourse with other men, which is determined by the possessiveness of the husband. Maybe many women think that it doesn't matter if they maintain normal contacts with friends of the opposite sex after marriage, but they are very wrong, which can easily cause jealousy or suspicion of their husbands, and also prepare opportunities for various cheating, so smart women should know how to cut off contact with other friends of the opposite sex in order to protect the stability and tranquility of the family.
3. Learn to give your husband a long face inside and out
Men are born with a fatal weakness, which is to love face. When a woman becomes a man's wife after marriage, whether in front of her family or outsiders, she must know how to maintain a good man's face, do her duty and know how to support her husband's face. This requires the wife to be flexible in various occasions, praise her husband in front of friends and relatives, in addition, the woman herself must maintain the inner learning and the maintenance and improvement of the external image, because the wife is taken out by the man is a man's face. A smart woman, after marriage, must understand that the most important thing inside and outside the old kilometer is face, for this reason, women can understand the direction of their own efforts to manage their marriage.