Secretly obtaining a marriage certificate behind the back of your parents is an act of unfilial piety at any time.
And going behind his parents' back, secretly getting a marriage certificate with a man whose parents do not agree and who is 26 years older than himself is even more unfilial among unfilial piety.
But Fu Mingxia, the always well-behaved diving queen, did so.
In 2002, she received the certificate behind her parents and Liang Jinsong.
This move made the parents so angry that they were "depressed" for a long time, and even quit their jobs because they had no face to see their relatives and friends around them.
So now that more than 20 years have passed, how are Fu Mingxia's parents?
What kind of appearance has Fu Mingxia, who married a man 26 years older than herself, become now?
The love of the diving queen
Guo Jingjing once said that Fu Mingxia is in front, and she will always be second.
Yes, Fu Mingxia when she was young created a lot of miracles for us.
She was the first youngest diving champion to stand on the podium of the Olympic champion in Barcelona at the age of 14.
He was also the first double champion, winning two gold medals in the 3m platform and 0m springboard events......
Saying that she is the best in the history of women's diving in the world should be unconvinced.
If such a person retires and continues to engage in the diving industry, he may be able to cultivate more diving talents for our country.
Unexpectedly, she did not continue to work in the field of sports after that.
After the appearance of the Olympic Games in 2000, Fu Mingxia said goodbye to the jumping platform completely and turned around to marry the wealthy entrepreneur Liang Jinsong.
The two met in 2001.
One is a successful businessman who is well-known in both business and politics, and the other is a champion who happens to be full of youthful halo.
It stands to reason that they should be very compatible when they walk together.
But the opposite is true.
It's just that the age difference between the two sides is too big, a full 26 years old.
Whether it is the outside world or Fu Mingxia's parents, they are very optimistic about this matter.
Of course, the age gap is only one of them.
It's more about the mismatch of the family conditions of both sides.
How can an ordinary family and a wealthy family achieve a good marriage?
Sure enough, as soon as the relationship between the two was exposed, Fu Mingxia was hit by a lot of public opinion.
Some people say that Fu Mingxia is obviously greedy for the other party's connections and assets.
Some people also say that the age gap is so big that countless generation gaps will not end well at all.
But no matter how the outside world and their families questioned and objected, the two persevered.
even secretly got a marriage certificate behind his parents' back.
Both parents resigned after being "depressed".
Knowing that the two had received the certificate, the helpless parents reluctantly participated in Fu Mingxia's wedding.
But they did not change their unfavorable attitude towards the two because of this grand wedding.
On the contrary, because of the marriage of the two, they became more reticent.
even resigned directly in the end, and stayed at home all day long without going out to meet people.
All this is only because after Fu Mingxia married Liang Jinsong, their lives have also undergone earth-shaking changes.
In the past, when I walked on the street, people I knew when I passed by would greet them warmly.
called them "parents of diving champions", and praised them for raising a good daughter.
But since Fu Mingxia married into a wealthy family, their identity has become "Liang Jinsong's father-in-law and mother-in-law".
Even the relatives who usually come and go as equals have become different from Fu Mingxia's parents.
The words are flattering and cautious.
Such a change makes them, who already have low self-esteem and family conditions, even more unable to raise their heads.
Of course, they knew that Liang Jinsong was a good golden beetle son-in-law.
But they also know better.
His family is a working family, and Liang Jinsong, a big man with a very well-known name in the business and political circles, can't control it at all.
To put it mildly, if Liang Jinsong gets tired of Fu Mingxia at that time, they won't even have a chance to fight for their daughter.
It is precisely for this reason that Fu Mingxia's parents fall into anxiety and cannot extricate themselves.
Until Fu Mingxia gave birth to her first child with Liang Jinsong.
Xu is in the concept of the older generation, giving birth to a child is considered to stabilize the status.
The old couple's worries finally dissipated a lot, and they went to Hong Kong to live with their daughter's family.
It was also in the next long time to get along.
They finally let go of their prejudice against Liang Jinsong and sincerely blessed the marriage of their daughter and son-in-law.
The current situation of Fu Mingxia's family
In fact, even though Fu Mingxia's parents have changed their views, the outside world is still not optimistic about this relationship.
In the eyes of most people, "year-old love" will not last long after all.
Even for many years, news of the marriage change between the two will be spread on the Internet from time to time.
once passed Fu Mingxia as the object abandoned by Liang Jinsong.
What is surprising is that from 2002 years of marriage to the present.
The relationship between the two has always been very good, and they have given birth to three children one after another.
Among them, Liang Jinsong's attitude towards Fu Mingxia is even more shocking.
It stands to reason that Liang Jinsong, who is vigorous and resolute in his career, will most likely have machismo concepts in life.
Especially since he is still older, he is more likely to put on a stand when facing Fu Mingxia.
never thought that wherever he went, he would declare Fu Mingxia to be his "leader".
For this leader, he thanked her for taking care of herself, her family, and her children, and was willing to obey the command of the "leader" in everything.
These words should not be for show.
Because when they appear in public, Liang Jinsong is very considerate of Fu Mingxia, and often clasps his fingers like a young man.
Even Fu Mingxia herself, a face in her 40s, does not show that she has been tortured by marriage, but is more of a nourishment of love.
The only regret is that Fu Mingxia, who has reached middle age, is a little blessed.
There is a big difference from standing with Guo Jingjing, who is also a diving champion.
conclusion
Some people say that if you want to learn, learn from Guo Jingjing, don't learn from Fu Mingxia.
Because she also married into a wealthy family, Guo Jingjing can stay with a peer who dotes on her very much.
You can even continue to do what you love.
And Fu Mingxia, after marrying a man who is more than 20 years older than herself.
Although he was pampered and respected by the other party, he focused on his family because he devoted himself to his family.
As a result, she doesn't look as energetic as Guo Jingjing, and even "herself" has been lost.
But in the author's opinion, it is a kind of luck to be able to marry into a wealthy family.
What's more, Fu Mingxia can also meet Liang Jinsong, who has been spoiling himself as a real "empress" for decades.
Why can't such feelings sacrifice herself for her?
In this regard, what do you think of Fu Mingxia's relationship?