Nowadays, many people are working hard and making money hard, but some people have gained the life they want, some people have not, some people have broken their loans, and some people have debts.
Why is it that the same effort is being made, but the results are different?
In fact, when it comes to effort, people with different ways of thinking understand it completely differently.
In other words, there is a difference in thinking when it comes to effort.
Thinking differences refer to differences between people in their approach to thinking and in their independence and flexibility of thinking.
Thinking is different, looking at the problem from different angles and ways, and the action plan taken is also different.
First of all, you need to knowYou'll never make money outside of what you know,
Cognition can change fate, and only when cognition is improved can you make money.
So let's first understand why people have cognitive differences?
In the world of the Internet,The difference in cognition is mainly due to the difference in the environment.
The social problems faced are different, and everyone's social cognition is very different.
So if we get knowledge and information from words,1000There will be it in the individual's mind1000Hamlet,
But what was Shakespeare really trying to say?
Probably this1000None of the personal thoughts are right, and this is the effect of literary pursuits,
But the deceptive nature of words in conveying information is self-evident.
If we get our information from language, language itself is deceptive.
For example, the same words, with different tones and different expressions, may produce completely different meanings, even if the original words express true meanings, it does not mean that they can be understood.
Therefore, Confucius once said, "Read a book a hundred times, and its meaning will be seen by itself."
Apparently none of us read it100All over.
In addition, artificial propaganda is misleading, deliberately trying to establish certain cognitions, such as advertisements, movies, and the promotion of their lives and ideas.
Let's take the simplest example
A car ad shows a middle-class successful person driving a car and taking the family to a picnic happily, full of family warmth and personal success, and you don't see a trace of pressure.
This may be a true manifestation of some of the middle class, but what is more?
It is mostly embellished and exaggerated in real life.
So how can we raise awareness to change our fate?
If we want to improve our cognitive level and cognitive ability, we must first upgrade our way of thinking.
For example, when it comes to effort, people with different ways of thinking understand effort completely differently.
The low-dimensional way of thinking understands hard work as a state of getting up early and being greedy for darkness, staying up late to study or working overtime, and being busy like a dog.
And what is the high-dimensional way of thinking?
Their understanding of effort is before effort
First of all, what kind of effort is effective?
So as to work hard in a directional and planned way, not to bury one's head in hard work, but to pay attention to methods and efficiency at all times.
They understand that hard work is jogging, not sprinting, and they keep doing it as always.
Second, improve your professional skills, interpersonal skills.
Guys, the expertise is easy to understand, right? Interpersonal skills are simply the ability to learn to work with people, to understand others, and to motivate others.
For example, if you open a company, you can lead employees, stimulate their work potential, motivate their work morale, or you are very good at technology.
But there is a lack of interpersonal skills, and although you are more likely to be able to complete specific tasks, there are also stakeholders involved in these specific tasks.
Therefore, to work with people and communicate with people, you must also have a certain ability to communicate with people and interpersonal communication in order to better complete the implementation of your goals.
知而未行是未知,知行合一為智慧。
Wisdom is knowing what to do every day of your life, and then doing it more diligently.
Successful people are successful precisely because they have the right thinking and are ahead of the curve in survival.
Start with a head start.
Only when a person is ahead in thinking will he be ahead in action.
Then it is the achievement that you first have your own unique ideas and establish a correct outlook on life.
With the change of the times, we can quickly adjust our thinking to find the foundation and starting point for changing our lives.
If we want to change the way we live,
First of all, we need to change our outdated thinking, as long as our thinking is correct, our world will be bright.
In fact, there is not much difference between us and those who succeed.
The real difference is in thinking.
They have always been in the hands of the mind, and we have always been in the hands of the mind.
Whether the thinking is correct or not determines who is the mount and who is the knight.
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