Liu Lina is particularly confused:

Xiaobai is obviously young and promising, and has a gentle and beautiful girlfriend, why is she so courteous to her, a middle-aged resentful woman who is married and has children, and is in her 40s?

Women can really be stupid when they are extremely lacking in love. This kind of stupidity is hateful and pathetic. Once someone gives her a little kindness, she is easy to lose her judgment and will not hesitate to lose everything.

A very vague point, when Xiaobai tricked her into signing the contract, she mentioned the following sentence:

You can talk to your husband about it.

But Liu Lina refused, and because of this sentence, she immediately signed the contract.

Shen Qing had already disappointed her, and she didn't even have the idea of asking for help. And Liu Lina is eager to prove to Xiaobai that she can call the shots, that she is free and assertive.

Liu Lina lost all her money.

Shen Qing was in the middle of the night again, secretly looking at Ace Li's photos.

This time, Liu Lina did not hold back, she directly found out the ambiguity between Shen Qing and Ace Li.

And Shen Qing didn't feel guilty at all, but became angry and shouted loudly, asking for his own space.

Every time I write about Shen Qing, I feel that he is too cruel to Liu Lina.

Once a man has two hearts, he can really interpret indifference and ruthlessness to the extreme:

• He took all the money, didn't even keep his son's tuition, and didn't care how his wife and children would live in the future.
• Wife, he is completely a decoration, when he does not exist, he can hide, and if he can't hide, he looks impatient, disgusted and despised.
• son, it seems that he has nothing to do with him, but Liu Lina is the son alone.

Why did Liu Lina fall into such an obvious "scam"?

Because, Shen Qing's indifference and ruthlessness have made Liu Lina fall into an "abnormal" state.

Unlike Shen Qing and Ace Li's soul resonance, Liu Lina doesn't like Xiaobai at all, she is just too cold in her marriage and wants men's recognition and warmth too much, so when Xiaobai is very attentive, she suddenly falls into it.

In marriage, a woman who is extremely lacking in love will really lose her three views because of a little "sense of recognition" and "sense of value".

Think about the reality of those old people and women who fall into scams, the reason for their deception is often not ignorance, but loneliness and lack of love.

Liu Lina finally made some money, and all of a sudden she lost everything.

Why did Xiaobai "pick" Liu Lina?

Because, since Xiaobai and Liu Lina intersected, Shen Qing has never appeared. And Liu Lina enjoyed his hospitality extremely and treated him as a lifesaver.

Liu Lina and Shen Qing's marital crisis gave Ace Li and Xiaobai an opportunity.

It is important to remember that home and everything is prosperous. When husband and wife work together, many bad things will really be avoided, and once husband and wife are separated, those bad things will happen quietly.

The three members of the Shen family turned their faces.

Le Shuishan made a request:

If she has a relationship with Shen Zhuoran, she wants to be buried with Shen Zhuoran after she dies.

And then the most wonderful face change came:

• When the Shen family used Le Shuishan as a stand-in to satisfy them to relive their mother's warm moments, the Shen family of three was full of attentiveness.

Shen Dai specially ran back from abroad, Shen Qing cooked by himself, and Shen Zhuoran would rather be a spare tire.

• But when Le Shuishan made a request to harm their interests, the three members of the Shen family turned their faces and began to accuse and complain.

Shen Dai scolded Le Shuishan for being excessive, Shen Qing treated Shen Zhuoran with both soft and hard, and Shen Zhuoran immediately compromised.

Throughout the play, if you look at the four women who went on a blind date with Shen Zhuoran, you will find:

The Shen family just wants to enjoy the benefits of others, and the contribution of others looks very decent and high, but once the other party wants the Shen family to pay, the Shen family is unwilling, they don't want to talk about money and feel vulgar, and they don't want to talk about responsibility and feel tired. Anyway, a theme, they can only get, but they are not willing to give.

People who don't want to talk about interests are often vested interests, because they don't feel the pain of losing interests.

Compare the Shen and Liu families, and you will find such a reality:

• 劉家人全家都在為女兒的婚姻服務，他們連2萬塊錢都不想亂花，想要把錢都剩下了給女兒，給外孫。
• All members of the Shen family are doing themselves, Shen Dai is not married, Shen Qing wants to be free, Shen Zhuoran is 70 years old, he never plans for his children, he just wants to be himself.

I don't know which of these two options is right, or neither.

Suffice it to say,Marriage and family need to take responsibility, as a father and a husband, you can be yourself, but you always have to think about others and your descendants.

It shouldn't be like Liu Lina's parents who pay too much and spoil their son-in-law's family, but it shouldn't be like Shen Zhuoran's family, who only enjoy and don't bear it.

It's too happy.

Parents are centrifuged, and it is often the children who are hurt the most.

Because, the child will be pulling, he will see everything, and he will learn everything:

• A grandfather who is 70 years old and has developed many romances, and every time he is vigorous enough。

Children's outlook on marriage and values mostly originate from their parents' outlook on marriage and values.

Shen Zhuoran lived with Lian Yilian in a high-profile manner, showing affection, which affected Shen Qing and Shen Duole.

Why is Shen Qing so justified in betraying his wife spiritually, because he saw the changeability of feelings from his father Shen Zhuoran.

And Shen Duole is actively helping his grandfatherIn the process of blind date, he also sprouted his own love, and he began to hide his parents' early love.

• A father who dislikes his wife, has an ambiguous relationship with investors all day long, and doesn't want to go home.

Shen Duole witnessed all his father's indifference to his mother, and also witnessed the tragic end of his mother's everything.

The quarrel between the parents, the Ace Li who appeared in the parents' mouths, plunged the whole family into turmoil.

• An extremely uneasy mother who is disgusted by her husband and falls into a scam.

Did Shen Qing and Liu Lina really consider Shen Duole?

A child who is about to take the college entrance examination, witnessing his parents' separation, quarrels, centrifugation, and betrayal, once he has a rebellious heart, the impact on his entire life is huge.

• There was also a sudden lack of money.

The father took all the money, the mother fell into the scam, and he also wanted to study abroad.

In a family, once the father is not responsible, the mother is forced to become a resentful wife, and the elderly have no good role model, then how should the children who witness everything establish their own outlook on life and values?

Regarding betrayal, Wu Zun said this:

I don't want my daughter to be embarrassed in the future.

As a parent, you don't have to be particularly rich, but at least you have a good character, because that is the most important basis for your child's growth.

When you are a husband and wife and have children, you must restrain yourself and think more about everything, you are a father and an example.

Don't let your bad life become a copy of your child's life.

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