There is a good saying: "Without any heartfelt effort, it is all a show." ”

In the matter of hard work, what is more terrible than not working hard is fake effort!

Some people seem to be busy all day, but they are busy and the result is a mess.

Without a goal, shouting empty slogans all day long is actually a fake effort to deceive oneself and others. Only by clearly understanding yourself, finding the right goal, and being down-to-earth, can you show the value of your efforts.

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Examine yourself and work hard soberly

Carl Jung, a famous Swedish psychologist, said: "Those who look outward are dreaming, and those who look inward are awake." ”

A person's growth, from adolescence to adulthood, even in old age, is a continuous learning process.

As long as you can look at yourself clearly, know your goals and directions, exercise your wings seriously, and fly hard, you will definitely have the moment when you spread your wings and soar.

At the Paris Olympics, when we saw the lovely "Little Chanbao" reaching the top of the championship and reaching the pinnacle of life, we all cheered for her.

Looking at her standing on the podium, she was covered with plasters at a young age, and we can imagine how much sweat and effort she shed to win the gold medal.

Since the age of 5, Quan Hongchan has been training in diving under the guidance of her coach. A little older, watching her brothers and sisters achieve excellent results and win medals, her goal is clearer, that is, to win gold medals in international competitions in diving events and win glory for the country.

Years of perseverance and hard work have allowed her to achieve remarkable achievements in the field of diving.

Be a person who really works hard, always examine yourself, soberly find out your own shortcomings, persist for a long time, as long as you have "ambition", do not give up, do not "lie flat", and do not pretend to work hard, you will succeed.

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Down-to-earth and refusing to pretend to be trying

Although some people have great ambitions and always want to soar to the sky, they have low eyes. It seems to be hard work, but in fact it is "superficial work".

There is a good saying: "If you aim at the moon, you can be among the stars even if you are lost." ”

I have a good classmate who only wants to take the public examination after graduating from university, and after working for two years, he gives up a high-paying job in a foreign company and concentrates on studying at home to prepare for the public examination.

During that time, we often saw him posting pictures of his studies in the circle of friends, and we were happy for him, and he worked so hard that he must have lived up to his original intention.

But later, someone found out that the picture he posted clicked on the sound of playing a game. It should be that he didn't pay attention to send out the live map.

It turns out that he has been pretending to work hard, and the circle of friends he posted is just for show, but in fact, he has no self-discipline, and he can't study for two hours a day, and most of the time he either watches videos or plays games.

The results of the exam are out, and the results can be imagined.

After failing the exam, he felt frustrated. His parents were very worried about him, so they approached some of our classmates and hoped that we could persuade him to find a job.

After our repeated analysis and persuasion, he finally woke up, realized his impetuousness and inadequacy, and decided to work hard.

After returning to work, he was really reborn, not only serious in his work, but also bought a lot of books on company management in his spare time.

During this study, I never saw him post on the circle of friends, and when we gathered, we didn't hear him show off his diligence by studying.

A year later, he was promoted to the middle leadership of the company.

You don't need to tell the world about your efforts, because the results will give you the answer.

The world is very big, the scenery is very beautiful, and there are many opportunities, but if you don't work hard or fake efforts, the scenery and opportunities will be like falling flowers and flowing water.

The experience of my classmate is a true portrayal of the different results of fake efforts and real efforts.

In the adult world, if you want to have no regrets in this life, then don't put on a show, don't pretend to work hard.

Pretending to work hard is nothing but self-deception, and there will be no good results after all.

Only by putting an end to the psychology of pretending to work hard and being down-to-earth to overcome obstacles, although the success is not so fast, the result will definitely not disappoint you.

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Final words

I saw such a passage: "In this world, there is a terrible thing called pretending to work hard, and still thinking that you are working hard." But if the effort is not efficient, it is futile. ”

There is a long road in the world called dreams, and there is a very high mountain called reality, if you make dreams come true, you can only chase the wind and the moon and never give up.

Nothing can be a sunhat for fake effort, and instead of pretending, look down at the road and carry the lantern forward.

Life is short and long. It's short enough for you to pass by in the pride of fake effort, and long enough for you to grow in the tenacity of real effort.

Work hard, chase the light, the world is worth it!

Author: The Eye of the Night.