When we are young, we often pursue material abundance and a prosperous life, and we are full of desire for everything that looks beautiful and interesting. At that time, it was difficult for us to understand some of the older people who lived a simple life despite their financial means. However, as I grew older, I gradually realized that the beauty of life does not lie in how much we have, and I also understood the true meaning of the saying "the more things, the more troubles" - true beauty is often simple and pure.
130. Diet: In the past, I was always used to hoarding all kinds of snacks and going to the supermarket every week to buy them, which almost became a habit of mine. As soon as you find out that the snack box is empty, you will feel uneasy. On weekends, I also like to go to various popular restaurants, but this uncontrolled diet eventually caused my weight to soar from 0 to 0 pounds. It wasn't until I gained weight that I realized how painful and hard it was to lose weight. And at the mother-in-law's house, milk and tea have replaced drinks and milk tea, and fruits have replaced unhealthy snacks. She told me that our physical condition doesn't need as much food; Excessive intake will only increase the burden on the body, and over time, it may also lead to diseases. During my time at her house, I discovered that simple foods like baked potatoes and baked sweet potatoes were actually much better than those snacks.
2. Dressing: Sorting through the clothes that I wore repeatedly last summer, I found that most of them were basic. Many beauty-loving girls may think that the basics are bland and always want to find some clothes with a unique sense of design. But in reality, for most people, the basic model is the most utilized and versatile option. There is no need for complicated designs and bright colors, and there is no need to follow the so-called "fast fashion", high-quality items are far more important than the number of piles. Choose the right style and comfortable clothes for you, and match them properly, so that even simple accessories can show off the extraordinary.
3. Jewelry: The good thing about buying gold is that even if you don't like it anymore after three minutes, what is left won't be a bunch of useless things. This gives people both the satisfaction of consumption and the absence of guilt. When you are young, you may feel that gold is old-fashioned and would rather spend money on other things; When I got married, I bought a diamond ring, but now I find that the broken diamond is worthless, and the diamond ring has become an idle item at home. Those cheap trinkets, although fresh for a while, will soon fade and deform, making people regret it. Time tells us that only real gold is not afraid of fire, and gold is the choice that can best withstand the test of time.
4. Hair: Who doesn't like to toss their hair when they're young? Whether it's dyeing or perming, I've spent a lot of time and money in a barbershop. I used to struggle with what color to dye my hair or what hairstyle to choose. But after a few such tosses, the hair became dry and split ends, and eventually had to cut the damaged long hair short. Now it seems that natural straight black hair is the most durable and healthier.
5. Social aspect: After marriage, I found that sincere friends are hard to find. Whether you're doing well or badly, there always seems to be people who will judge it. In this complicated life, true freedom and relaxation are found in solitude. Reading a favorite book, watching a movie, listening to great music, even just sitting on a park bench or on the couch at home can make for a perfect weekend. True friends are busy with their own lives, and the people they associate with today are either based on interests or general friendships. In such moments, it is more comfortable and comfortable to enjoy a quiet time alone.
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