The performance of a guy who really loves a girl
A girl's statement:
My husband and I have known each other for 6 years, been in love for 0 years, and the feeling at the beginning is that I love me to the core.
Later, it became more and more dull, and he became more and more in a normal state of love, and no longer regarded me as a fate.
I wondered for a while if he didn't love me anymore, or that he didn't love me as much as he used to, and his answer was never, he no longer stayed up late at night with me, but I always had a glass of warm water by my bedside.
He no longer wakes me up every weekend, but quietly gets out of bed and plays with his phone, hoping that I can sleep comfortably more.
We also started arguing, he lost his temper, and he was no longer the same person who spoiled me before. Actually, this is the normal state of love marriage, isn't it?
He once said, I've always loved it, but I don't have to worry about losing you.
But it's never because I don't love you anymore.
Love will not be static, and the good night that talks until the early hours of the morning when you are in love will really become an early bed for you after getting married. But love has always been there.
You think love is gone, but in fact love has been sublimated.
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Freshness is such a thing, when you feel that the feelings are starting to fade, that is when love really begins.
Because the essence of love is bland, when you feel that there is no freshness, of course you can choose to give up you and find another love that is more fresh for you.
But when that love dies again, you fall into an endless loop.
There is a very good saying that never gives up on someone who is willing to be by your side all the time because of novelty, because it is a nature to change your heart, and loyalty is a choice, and time will dilute everything.
A boy's statement:
I stand in the perspective of a man, and I tell you the truth, what is the state of a man after he is really emotional, he is really reluctant to touch her, respect her, and want to buy her beautiful clothes and cosmetics.
I don't need her to do anything for me, I just can't help but want to give her the best, I always feel that she has shortcomings, and I am always afraid that I will not give her enough.
The highest state of love must be distressed, I am afraid that she will get lost when I go out, I am afraid that she will be made difficult, and I am afraid that she will feel helpless after an accident alone.
I always think that both men and womenThe highest state of love must be distress, a woman must find a man who really loves you.
If you don't ask him anything, he will tell you everything, that's called responsibility.
You don't need to ask him for money to spend, but he takes the initiative to give it to you, which is called preference.
If you don't like something, he takes the initiative to do it, which is called attitude.
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I have found that some girls are often insecure when they are in love, and they generally think that the reason is their own.
Even if sometimes it's the other half's fault, you have to take all the blame on yourself.
In fact, you don't have to think like this, you must know that when a man really loves you, your shortcomings will also become advantages through layers of filters.
He doesn't care if you're fat or not, if you're good-looking.
Although they all sing the praises of being evenly matched, but, love is... Extremely small and weird things.
You can like a person because of the shape of her eyes,
Because a person cries until his eyes are swollen and likes her,
Because he loves to laugh and like her,
Or because he doesn't like to laugh and like her, like a lightning bolt flying from the clear sky, suddenly piercing the body.
It was such a quick, passionate, detached, indescribable moment that the person in front of him became unique.
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So there is no one outside who can compare with him,
Later, I realized that it is not necessary to be loved if you become good.