Feng Tang once said: "Low-level people are very animalistic, often tearing each other apart and not paying attention to the rules.

For some people, if you really want to gain their respect, you have to show that they are one level above him, otherwise they will kick their nose in the face. ”

Especially in the bottom society, the better you talk, the easier it is to be bullied; The better the upbringing, the more it will be attacked by the crowd.

If you keep thinking about treating people with courtesy, you will definitely be gnawed to the point that there is no scum left.

1

You preach morality

People at the bottom only value profits

There is such a scene in "The Way of Heaven".

投資鬼才丁元英，打算扶貧王廟村。

No matter what you say, this move is a great joy for the villagers of Wangmiao Village.

Then at the first shareholders' meeting in Wangmiao Village, many villagers raised some questions about Ding Yuanying.

said that Ding Yuanying did not contribute capital to the shares, and if something really happened at that time, they would only lose money.

Ding Yuanying was a little stunned when he heard it at the time.

But in view of the villagers' conjectures, he still patiently told them some of his own considerations, and the villagers had no objections.

Later, under the operation of Ding Yuanying, the company made some money by operating audio.

As a result, the people in the village have also found jobs and lifted themselves out of poverty.

Especially Ye Xiaoming, Feng Shijie, and Liu Bing in the village, they have become well-known figures in the industry because of their management of the company.

But at this time, they still don't know how to be grateful.

Later, the company got into a lawsuit, and Ye, Feng, and Liu were even more worried that the company would go bankrupt and damage their own interests.

At the time of the company's survival, they directly demanded the withdrawal of shares.

After withdrawing shares, he also accused Ding Yuanying of being reckless and not considering their interests.

If it weren't for Ding Yuanying's chess rank higher than them, I expected them to do this, then I am afraid that Ding Yuanying himself would suffer a big loss in the end.

So, why is it that the better educated people are, the less suitable they are to survive at the bottom?

Because you talk to them about morality, they only talk to you about profit.

In the eyes of the people at the bottom, there is always the supremacy of interests, and there is no morality at all.

No matter how much others pit their hearts and lungs into them, once they don't get the benefits, they will forget all the good things that others have done before;

No matter how much they have received favors from others, once their own interests are damaged, they will turn against each other.

And if a well-bred person fails to predict their movements in everything, he will definitely end up being attacked by the enemy.

Rather than getting yourself into such a predicament, it is better to stay away from this group of people from the beginning.

2

You pay attention to cultivation

People at the bottom only think that you are weak and can be bullied

Mr. Yang Jiang once sighed:

In this materialistic world, you have the intention of being an honest person who has no quarrel with the world, and others will use you to bully you.

If you have a little talent and moral character, people will be jealous of you and push you; If you give in generously, people will invade you and harm you.

Especially at the bottom of society, the better you cultivate, the easier it is to be bullied and attacked by others for no reason.

When Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu fell to the bottom, the neighbors who lived around them were not kind to them.

Even so, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang still try to keep a low profile, and they are always polite to their neighbors on weekdays.

For the sake of harmony between neighbors, Yang Jiang will take the initiative to help his neighbors light a fire, and will also leave his own closet for his neighbors;

When she saw that people forgot to move the baby bassinet back, she would also help carry it up to the third floor and silently put it at their doorstep.

However, many of the kindness of Yang Jiang's family were exchanged for the arrogance and unreasonableness of their neighbors.

One Sunday, Yang Jiang hired Xiao Chen, an hourly worker, to help with laundry.

Unexpectedly, the female neighbor saw it, so she had to ask Xiao Chen to help them wash it first.

Daughter Qian Ying disagreed, but the other party was a slap in the face.

That's not all, the female neighbor called her husband again and beat Yang Jiang and Qian Ying together.

It wasn't until the wooden shelf for drying clothes at home was knocked down that Qian Zhongshu rushed to hear the sound, and he took out a desperate posture with his neighbor, and the other party admitted it and left in disgrace.

So, why is it that the better educated people are, the less suitable they are to survive at the bottom?

Because the people at the bottom are afraid of power and morality, your good cultivation will only become weak and deceitful in their eyes.

I've heard a saying: When dealing with low-level people, you must not be too easy-going.

Because the more you treat them with respect, the easier it is for them not to take you seriously.

Only when you put away your self-cultivation and show your edge, they will not think you are a bully.

3

You are altruistic everywhere

People at the bottom just take it for granted

Writer Zhou Guoping told a story.

He had a friend who was known for his kindness.

Once, he borrowed money from a scoundrel, and after a long time, he did not see the other party pay it back.

So the friend went to remind him, but the other party lost his temper, accused the friend of being too stingy, and asked him to wait.

But after three years, the scoundrel still didn't pay back a penny, and his friend went to ask for it again.

As soon as he finished speaking, the other party jumped up and shouted: "Why are you so careful, how long have you been, and you still can't forget it?" ”

In the end, he didn't pay back the money, and when he met people, he said that his friends were stingy and should not be deeply friends.

古人說：“慈悲多禍害，方便出下流。 ”

In the dictionary of some people at the bottom, there is no reciprocation, only intensification.

The softer and kinder you are, the more you will be exploited and oppressed by them.

Phoenix.com once reported a real-life version of the story of "The Farmer and the Snake".

Li Zhongsui is a retired teacher, and one day, a student Yu Chuanzhen, who had taught many years ago, came to visit him.

After a brief greeting between the two, Yu Chuanzhen said her intention.

她說自己的孩子在國外上學，學費一時周轉不開，想讓李中隨做個擔保人，幫忙貸14萬。

Li Zhongsui agreed.

4個月後，禹傳珍再次登門借錢，李中隨又向同村人借了4萬塊錢給她。

After that, Yu Chuanzhen disappeared, and the platform's debt collection calls kept calling Li Zhongsui, and Li Zhongsui had to bear all the debts.

如今本可以安享晚年的李中隨，卻只能住在一間破爛的平房裡，用拿了一輩子筆桿子的手，給人家壘牆、撿土豆、在菜市場里裝大白菜，替學生償還那不屬於他的18萬債務。

So, why is it that the better educated people are, the less suitable they are to survive at the bottom?

Because the bottom society is full of intrigue and intrigues, and people's hearts are unpredictable.

The bad of the bottom person is deep in the bone marrow, and no matter how good you are to him, this kind of person cannot change his nature.

Meng Fei once said:

The people at the bottom asked you for help, and they expected you to help by ten points, but you only helped with seven points, and the convenience felt that you were not righteous.

Instead of thanking you, I feel like you owe him three points. Many human grievances are due to this.

Although the people at the bottom are disadvantaged, many of them are not good.

Anyone who has been in contact with more circles knows that the further down you go, the more evil and explicit human nature becomes.

Even many high-quality, high-cognitive people will fall into a survival dilemma in the bottom society.

If you don't have the strength to get out of this predicament, then stay as far away from the bottom as possible.

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Mr. Lu Xun once wrote:

People at the bottom of society will often hurt each other, they are sheep and beasts.

But when they meet a beast that is fiercer than them, they appear like a sheep, and when they meet a sheep that is weaker than them, they appear like a fierce beast.

It is the nature of people at the bottom to bully the good and fear the evil, and to bully the weak.

In such an environment, your self-cultivation will be seen as incompetent and weak, and your humility will make you the target of attack and bullying.

The best way to avoid this persecution is to work hard to improve yourself, choose a suitable living environment, and associate with people who are well-bred and well-behaved.