The journey of life is like a lonely wandering. Everyone goes their own way on their own. "As the years go by, loneliness seems to become an irresistible fate." This sentence evokes the resonance of countless middle-aged hearts. In the animated film "Spirited Away", there is such a thought-provoking line: "Life is like a train to the end, there will be many websites along the way, but few people can accompany you through the whole journey." "It is true that no one will always be by our side, everyone has their own path to go and their own mission to be accomplished.
There are always people in life who are drifting away from us, this is the normal state of life, and it is also a reality that we have to accept. Whether it's time, life, or love, these three things are irretrievable. Whether it's a friend or a loved one, they can leave us quietly at some point. It's not because they don't value us, it's that life itself is full of variables and helplessness. The words of the rat woman in "Big Fish and Begonia" are thought-provoking: "Don't presuppose to spend your life with others, let everything follow fate, and fate will lead you to go with the flow." This reminds us that the encounters and separations in life are predestined, and all we can do is to cherish every encounter and face every separation bravely.
As we enter middle age, the stress of life often makes us feel lonely and helpless. Zhang Ailing once said: "When people reach middle age, they will feel extremely lonely. Because when you open your eyes, you're surrounded by people who depend on you, and the people you want to rely on are nowhere to be found. "However, life is exactly like this, some roads can only be walked alone, and some things can only be faced by themselves. We need to learn to find strength in loneliness and hope in challenges. The writer Yishu once sighed: "Old friends from afar, no matter whether they are happy, angry, sad or happy, they can't do anything, and good news can only be rejoiced; The bad news is just a sigh. This tells us that in this world, everyone has their own joys and pains, and we need to learn to bear and digest these emotions independently.
"As I grew older, loneliness seemed to become an irresistible fate." In the TV program "Longing for Life", Huang Lei quoted Mu Xin's words to make people suddenly brightened: "'In the midst of a hundred turns of soft intestines, day by day is cold'. This callousness is actually positive, he cherishes everyone around him, but never extravagantly or forces the other person to be loyal to the relationship. "It teaches us not to force any relationship, even if it's very important to you. Life is a journey, I pass by you, you pass by me, and then each cultivates and moves forward. All we can do is to cherish every encounter and treat every emotion sincerely.
"I have two kinds of responsibilities: to those who gave birth to me and to those who gave birth to me. I care about two kinds of people: my partner and my friend. This passage illustrates how we should treat everyone in our lives. We should cherish those who are genuinely good to us, because they are the treasures of our lives. At the same time, we should also learn to stay away from those who are not honest and honest, because they only bring us harm and suffering.
"I reject two kinds of people: those who misbehave, and those who are not sincere; There are two kinds of people I value: people who dare to lend me money, and people who really care about me. This tells us that in interpersonal interactions, we must learn to distinguish between right and wrong and choose wisely. We should cherish those who are willing to lend a helping hand in difficult times, because they are precious people in our lives. At the same time, we also need to learn to be grateful to those who truly care about us because they are the sunshine in our lives.
"I avoid two kinds of people: those who reach out when they see good things, and those who avoid problems; I admire two kinds of people: women who accompany men through sorrows, and men who share women's joys. This reminds us that in our interpersonal interactions, we should appreciate those who are still with us in difficult times, because they are our true friends and companions. At the same time, we should also respect those who are constantly striving and working tirelessly in life, because they are examples for us to learn from.
In this ever-changing world, the only constant is change itself. We can't predict what kind of people and what kind of things we will encounter in the future, but what we know is that no matter what kind of difficulties we encounter, we must learn to face them strongly; No matter who you meet, you should learn to cherish it. Because in this world, there are too few people who are really good to you, and it is a great luck to be able to meet them. Therefore, cherish those who treat you sincerely and never leave you.
"The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time." Time is the most impartial referee, it bears witness to everything. Whether it's friendship, family affection or love, only those who treat each other with sincerity can ultimately win our hearts. Therefore, we should learn to feel the contribution of others and cherish the company of others. Because in this lonely journey of life, each of us is a passerby in each other's lives. But there are always people who are willing to stay, spend some time with us, share some joys and sorrows. These people are the precious wealth in our lives, and they deserve to be cherished and thanked with our hearts.
The last thing I want to say is: cherish what you have now! Because all this is happiness that we can truly grasp. Whether it's family, friends, or loved ones, they are indispensable in our lives. We should learn to be grateful, learn to cherish, and learn to contribute; At the same time, we must also learn to let go, learn to accept, and learn to grow. In this way, we can go further and broader on the road of life.