Love is like the stars.

The love of parents has its own merits.

In the starry sky of education, parents shine on their children's lives in different ways.

Some people say:

Growth is a journey, and love is the guide to that journey.

Parents' love is like a compass that guides children into the future. But the love shown by each parent is like a unique star, each with its own light and trajectory.

Do you know? There are actually three layers of parental love!

Level 1: Treat your child as a baby.

There's no denying that:

Parents love their children.

Parents at this level always treat their children as treasures in the palm of their hands.

They are worried about their children's injuries, so they do everything on their behalf, but they inadvertently deprive them of the opportunity to explore the world.

As a parent, it is important to know:

True self-confidence is often built through falls and attempts.

Even if we love our children very much, we can't treat them with doting. As a result, the child will not be able to be independent, and it will also make the child lack the spirit of exploration.

For these parents:

Perhaps we should learn to let go, let our children grow up freely in the wind and rain, and pursue their own stars.

Level 2: Use your child as a tool.

Some parents.

Put the dream of making money on the child's body.

Unconsciously, he turned his child into a tool for profit, and he didn't care about his child's true feelings.

Parents who treat their children as tools, they are eager to make their children what they want to be, but they ignore their children's inner voice.

Be aware of:

A child's growth takes time and patience.

The utilitarian mentality will only make children lose themselves and lose themselves on the road of growth.

If you love children, you might as well have more empathy and listen to your child's real voice. Parents can only really know what their children's needs are.

Level 3: Let the child be himself.

Each person is an individual.

Parents should know that your child is also unique.

And parents at this level can understand that children are not their own accessories, nor are they tools to fulfill their wishes.

They respect the child's choice.

Under the influence of this educational thinking:

These parents give their children the freedom to become their true selves in love and care. And such children are more likely to be independent and can find their own happiness.

Such parents, their love, is like the Big Dipper in the night sky.

As children grow, they guide them and light the way forward.

As a parent, what is your love?

No matter what your answer is, I believe that every parent loves their children.

It's just that love comes in different ways and forms.

Only parents who truly know how to love can raise confident, independent, and loving children. So, let's all be the brightest star and illuminate the future of our children with the right love!

Proofread by Zhuang Wu