1. Family life is not rich, and there is no point in daily life that stimulates children to become excited. Either parents are busy with work and have little time to spend with their children; Either parents don't know how to play with their children.

2. Children's addiction to games is related to their father's daily life performance, often unable to control their temper, simple and rude handling problems, and poor emotional management ability. Dad often complains, blames, and picks all kinds of mouths, and shows his presence by picking thorns. The essence is Dad's incompetence, he can't handle things outside, he will only be in the nest.

3. There is a doting and pampering parent at home, but now there is nothing you can do about the child. This person may be grandparents, grandparents, mothers. One of the things they often say is that the child is still young, what does he know? The end result is that you miss the best time to educate your child, and by the time the problem arises, you can't do anything about it.

4. The child used to be positive, but later encountered setbacks, and the parents did not help the child sort out the mentality in time and help the child solve the problem together, and even the child encountered the accusations and complaints of the parents. The feeling of helplessness in the event destroys the child's positive attitude, and then lies flat.

5. Children who love to play mobile phones and are addicted to games are often children who are willing to abide by the rules, the rules here refer to the rules of certainty, a new video can appear with a finger stroke, and if you defeat a boss, you can get certain equipment. And this certainty is often not obtained from parents. obviously promised to buy a pair of sneakers for the child, but the child's wish was disappointed again and again; After getting good results in the exam, the parents agreed to go to the park together, but the child waited for the next time. In the long run, the child's trust in his parents will decrease, and he will even feel that his parents are the ones who broke their promises (and may have been), and at this time, children will seek emotional stability and comfort from the virtual world, and games are the best choice.

6、孩子在遊戲中獲得了自己能勝任的任務，完成之後會被及時獎勵，一句你真棒、你好帥都是孩子心中莫大的安慰，然而從父母這裡永遠得不到。寫完一張捲子永遠還有下一張捲子；考了九十分永遠還有一百分，哪怕考了一百分後面還跟著別驕傲，下次哪怕考了九十九分，都是退步。孩子過的很累，很無助，他面對的是欲求不滿的父母和長鳴的警鐘。

7. The immersion in the game and the mutual support between teammates make children feel not alone, we are a team, and I am satisfied with you. Don't worry about the blame of your parents falling from the sky, always have the right to choose, choose like-minded teammates with me! Encourage each other to move forward, seeing this, do you also want to play a game?

8. The game is always positive and timely feedback, and if you fail, you can only start a new game, and if you succeed, you will get the reward of the game immediately. And the feedback often given by parents is either not timely enough, or just corrected, parents who do well are secretly proud there, and those who do not do well immediately rush up and scold. Don't talk about children, I don't like people like this in my thirties! And I, as an adult, I can choose to leave such a person, what can the child do? can only endure in silence.

I think that the process of educating children itself is a mirror of parents, growing up with children, letting go of pride and prejudice, and being a better self is to give children a better education! Encourage you all.

Proofread by Zhuang Wu