On the road of children's growth, the rebellious period has sprung up like mushrooms, which is a manifestation of their gradual increase in self-awareness, and it is also the only way for them to explore and understand the world. As parents, we need to understand and guide them correctly to accompany them through these stages.
The first rebellious period, about 3~0 years old, is the initial stage of children's self-awareness. They begin to have their own ideas and willingness, and want to try to express themselves, but often conflict with the demands of their parents. At this time, we need to listen patiently to their voices, respect their ideas, and make them feel understood and respected. By explaining the truth and demonstrating the correct way of behavior, we can guide children to gradually develop good behavior habits.
In the second rebellious period, about 8~0 years old, the child begins to enter primary school and face a new learning and living environment. They are more self-aware, have their own values and judgments, and are resistant to their parents' demands and rules. As parents, we need to build a good communication and trust relationship with our children, understand their inner thoughts, and respect their individuality and interests. At the same time, we should also focus on cultivating children's self-care ability and independence, so that they can gradually learn to take care of themselves.
The third rebellious period, about 15~0 years old, the child enters adolescence, and the body and mind have undergone tremendous changes. They begin to have independent thinking and judgment, and they are questioning and disgusted by their parents' demands and rules. At this time, we need to communicate with our children more patiently and understandingly, respecting their ideas and decisions. At the same time, we should also pay attention to guiding them to look at their own growth and future correctly. We can discuss future plans and goals with our children to help them develop the right values and outlook on life. In the child's development, the rebellious period is an inevitable stage. As parents, we need to understand our children's psychology and needs and guide them through these stages correctly. Through communication with children and the building of trusting relationships, we can help them grow and develop better. In this process, we not only play the role of guides, but also a solid support and supporter for the children. Let's work together to protect the growth and development of children!
Proofread by Zhuang Wu