When you are down, please avoid these three bad moves

落魄時刻，請避免這三大不祥之舉

Updated on: 07-0-0 0:0:0

Life is not always smooth sailing, and there will always be some setbacks and challenges.

If everything goes well, then life will become uneventful, losing the excitement of ups and downs, and not being able to exercise the wisdom to cope with difficulties.

But how do you get through these tough times?

First of all, we must dare to face the dilemma, and avoiding is not the solution to the problem.

When the economy is tight, the job is unsatisfactory, and the debt is heavy; Friends and family can't understand you and think that your investment is blind and has led to bad results; I also feel lost and don't understand why my dreams are suddenly shattered; The number of people who despise you increases, but few who are willing to lend a hand; No matter what you do, it doesn't seem to be going well......

What worries us most is that we will fall deeper into a trough by blindly seeking medical treatment in despair.

Therefore, after recognizing the reality, it is necessary to quickly learn to stop losses and avoid making the following three unlucky decisions.

Don't be superstitious, but learn to adapt to the times.

There is a saying in my hometown: "The poor believe in God, and the rich worship God." ”

Similarly, when worshipping in front of a god or bodhisattva, different attitudes will bring different results.

When a person is in poverty and adversity, it is easy to be suspicious and hope to bring good luck with the help of external invisible forces.

It is common to think: Is it because God doesn't help? Did you offend any of the gods? Is there someone secretly doing evil? Is it the wrong name? Or is the day of departure an unlucky day?

Acting according to one's own ideas, it is easy to fall into superstition, which not only delays time, but also makes too many taboos and makes things even more difficult. It can also be understood that it is the psychological effect that is at work.

明代末年，李自成攻入北京，崇禎皇帝焦急萬分。

福建籍將軍蔣德璟和四川籍將軍陳演主動請戰，欲驅逐李自成，但崇禎因迷信“閩、蜀同風，腹中有蟲”而未允。

He thinks that a general with bugs on his expedition means that he is not in the right mind and cannot be trusted.

Later, Li Jiantai, a scholar from Shanxi, went to war, but because he was a civilian leader, he was quickly defeated and he was captured.

From ancient times to the present, not only ordinary people are superstitious, but also some knowledgeable and noble people are also superstitious, the ancients begged for rain is an example, they would rather ask for rain than repair water conservancy facilities.

Romain Rolland once said, "When a man abandons his faith, he may turn to superstition." ”

Superstitious people have many similarities with confused people. The more superstitious you are, the less clear you are about what you should do, and you are troubled by all kinds of strange things, and you can't extricate yourself.

What's even more terrifying is that some superstitious people are also easily deceived and cause greater losses.

It always helps to analyze your life scientifically, read more books, take positive actions, and understand the cause and effect of things.

Avoid overdrawing your future and learn to live simply.

When Tang Taizong first ascended the throne, in order to expand his military strength, he decided to conscript all tall men under the age of eighteen to enlist in the army.

Minister Wei Zheng immediately objected, pointing out that this was short-sighted.

The pond was drained of water for fishing, and although it was full for a while, the pond could no longer be used to raise fish. If you are greedy for a moment's pleasure, you will eventually starve for a long time.

In the same way, people naturally crave money and assistance in times of need.

From a monetary point of view, you may try your best to overdraft and borrow all your financial instruments.

It's true that a one-time overdraft can get thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars, but how will you pay off this debt?

When you become a dishonest person, you can no longer get any loans. Even if you have the opportunity to turn over, you will not be able to return to heaven due to lack of principal.

From a relationship point of view, if you ask someone before you have thought about the specific things to ask for, the kindness of others may not meet your actual needs.

Debt is precious, and there will always be good Samaritans who will help you unconditionally.

Instead of overdrawing on the future, learn to live a simple life and spend as little as possible. In relationships, think hard about who can really help you get a job or give the best advice.

As long as you start working, even if you have a small income, you can slowly find opportunities to change your destiny. When the opportunity comes, borrow appropriately, and you can take advantage of the trend.

Avoid severing family ties and learn to get through difficult times with your family.

Some people resent their families for not helping them when they were at a low point, and chose to travel alone or even go incognito to work in other places.

Abandoning your spouse and children may make it easy for you for a while, but have you considered that this behavior has shown that you are irresponsible and how you can stand in society in the future?

As the saying goes: "Filial piety comes first".

Abandoning your family shows that you have a problem with your character, which will be despised by society and will be very difficult to help in the future.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Hua Xin and Wang Lang took refuge on a boat together, and someone asked to go on the boat on the way.

Soon after, the robbers pursued, and Wang Lang proposed to abandon the new aboard in order to speed up the escape.

Hua Xin said that since he had agreed to let people get on the ship, he could not abandon it halfway.

From then on, people appreciated Hua Xin's personality even more, and he later became an important minister of Cao Wei.

Someone commented on him: "Although Hua Ziyu has no strategic talent, his noble virtue has won the help of everyone." ”

When people are at a low point, it is a time to share difficulties with their families. Only family members will do their best to help you.

Take the initiative to take responsibility with your family and find a way out, even if you work together as a husband and wife to earn money, your income will increase. At the very least, this will ensure that the children grow up smoothly and that there will be successors in the family.