Why is she still that face?

At Paris Fashion Week, the black tulle skirt was draped, and the moment Shu Qi walked out, the audience was quiet for a few seconds.

It's not amazing, it's shocking - a 49-year-old person can still be so beautiful and smile like a twenty-something.

Even under the lens of foreign media, she did not panic at all. There is no retouching, no filter, the skin on her face is tight and full, and her eyes still have aura, netizens shouted: "Did she secretly freeze time?" ”

And behind this glamorous lens, her life is actually very simple.

On birthdays, there is no pomp and circumstance, and there are no star-studded parties.

It was Feng Delun who cooked a bowl of longevity noodles with his own hands, and the two of them nested at home, carefully caring for this hard-won tenderness.

Whether Shu Qi is doing well or not, a bowl of noodles has explained everything. But her happiness did not fall from the sky.

01|When she was a child, she was "someone else's negative teaching material"

Shu Qi was born in an ordinary family, and it can even be said that he is poor.

Both parents have a bad temper and often quarrel. The atmosphere at home was depressing, and Shu Qi was always worried when she was a child. She once said: You have to look at your parents' faces before you go home.

When she grew up, she was rebellious and didn't like to read, so she ran out to work before finishing junior high school.

I worked as a waitress in a restaurant and as a model. It was when I was in the modeling circle that I was discovered by a talent scout and signed a contract with an entertainment company.

But the way she entered the industry was not decent.

At the beginning, I made restrictive works, such as photographs, magazines, and marginal films, and the scale was not small. Some people scolded her for "getting off the star", saying that she had no bottom line.

In fact, she herself didn't want to. But at that time, I was poor, I signed a contract, and I couldn't leave if I wanted to. The company forced her to shoot, and if she didn't shoot, she would lose money.

Later, a lawyer finally found a loophole in the contract for her, saying that she was a minor when she signed the contract, and the contract could be terminated. She was able to get out and move to another company.

The road to transformation is not easy. The new company also wanted to take the "sexy route", and let her continue to shoot revealing roles.

She endured it, endured it, and finally received some literary films, and then slowly gained a firm foothold.

Meeting Hou Xiaoxian was the first turning point in her life.

In "Millennium Mambo", under the blue light, one look can convey affection.

From that moment on, the audience really realized: it turned out that she didn't only have a figure, she had acting skills and a soul.

Later, she began to shoot dramas, "Assassin Nie Yinniang", "The Best Time", "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", each more hardcore.

After she won the Golden Horse Film, she became one of the representatives of Chinese literary films.

She counterattacked step by step, slapping all the doubts in the face with her strength.

02|Love, a period is harder than a period

After becoming famous, Shu Qi has also been in love a lot. But in every paragraph, almost nothing came of good.

The first is Dawn.

One of the four heavenly kings, handsome and cold, with countless fans. The two fell in love because of the drama and quietly dating. But Dawn never admitted this relationship positively.

Shu Qi wanted to be famous, but Liming said that the time had not come.

In fact, everyone knows that what he is worried about is Shu Qi's past. Family background, debut method, and fan acceptance...... She is too "complicated" and not "clean" enough.

Fans scolded her, the media mocked her, and Dawn's parents didn't accept her.

This relationship, under multiple pressures, quietly dispersed. Shu Qi was in pain for a long time, and her mood was low for a while.

The second paragraph is Zhang Zhen.

Unlike Liming, Zhang Zhen is gentle. The two became acquainted with each other because of the movie, and they got along peacefully, low-key and stable during their relationship. Shu Qi thought that this time it was expected to come to the end.

But Zhang's parents objected — for the same reason.

Shu Qi couldn't hold on, and Zhang Zhen also compromised. After the breakup, Zhang Zhen quickly married someone else. And at his wedding, the bride also gave Shu Qi a bouquet of flowers.

She smiled and took it, and everyone was silent at that moment.

The third is Wang Leehom.

The two met because of the MV, and soon sparked. went on a trip together, watched concerts together, and the relationship was once favored.

But Leehom Wang's family did not accept her either.

This time, she stopped fighting and quit directly. There are many feelings, and my heart is tired.

She began to feel that maybe this life would be like this, no matter how many times she fell in love, she couldn't get married after all. Every start is enthusiastic, every end is messy.

03|Feng Delun, the person she never saw

The most dramatic scene is that the person who has always been by her side and she has never watched seriously has finally become her husband.

馮德倫，她認識二十多年了。

When they first debuted, the two were friends. He has always liked her silently, but she always treats him as a "buddy".

When she had a boyfriend, he was silent; When she fell out of love, he came to comfort her; She was cyberbullied, and he stood up to speak.

When Shu Qi was most depressed, he was there; When she was at her best, he was still there.

He also talked to a few girlfriends, but none of them lasted long. Others asked him: Can't you let go of her? He smiled and didn't speak.

Until one time, Shu Qi was surrounded and suppressed by the media again, and was scolded on the hot search again because he stood on the wrong team.

She almost broke down during that time. Feng Delun stood beside her again, didn't say a word, just guarded her.

舒淇突然意識到，這個男人陪了她二十多年，一直不離不棄。她開始重新審視他，看見了他所有細節。

Eventually, she accepted his confession.

The two did not get married in a high-profile manner, but registered in a low-key foreign country, and the wedding photos were all wearing cheap dresses bought by H&M. The media was amazed: how could it be so simple?

But they all feel that they don't need a sense of ceremony, it's enough to have each other in their hearts.

04|She is now living more freely than anyone else

After all these years of marriage, the two have always been as sweet as ever.

Shu Qi has a sensitive physique and has never planned to have children. Feng Delun is completely respectful, not reluctant, not urging.

He was afraid that she would be cold, so he carried a blanket with him; lest she be thirsty, so he carried a cup of water; She was in a bad mood, and he learned to bark to make her laugh.

At home, he often cooks and cooks noodles with his own hands. She had a cold, and he was busy; She went out to film, and he took care of her.

Someone asked Feng Delun: Don't you feel sorry? I don't have children.

He shook his head: as long as she's happy, that's enough.

49-year-old Shu Qi is still brilliant in her career. Red carpets, advertisements, fashion blockbusters, she doesn't fall a single one.

Foreign media commented on her: "She is the only Asian face who is still too beautiful to be picky without plastic surgery." ”

She doesn't fight, she doesn't rob, she doesn't pretend. From a controversial girl at the beginning to an elegant representative now, she has spent thirty years walking a path that no one can copy.

She understands what's important.

Golden Horse actress, international judge, these she has; Lovers, friends, and a stable life, she also has. She doesn't have to compete with others, because she has lived a life to the fullest.

Some people may remember that she came from a humble background and did not have a high starting point.

But now she has proved with her actions: no matter where she starts, as long as she moves forward, she can always walk out of her own light.

conclusion

She has been labeled all over the place, and she has taken many wrong paths; But she was never defined, let alone stopped.

What she wins is not her appearance, but her pattern. That kind of calmness of "seeing through but not saying it" is the reward given to her by time, and it is also the answer she won by herself.

Shu Qi's story is not a fairy tale, but it is more true than fairy tales. She really did it, boiling the hard days into sugar, and turning the scars into elegance.

Some people say that she is "frozen in age", but in fact, she is not getting old, but she is old beautifully and calmly.

She was never the luckiest, but she became the brightest one.