Of all the emotional troubles, the most unacceptable situation is when the other person coldly tells you that he has never really loved you and that everything is just a game.

This betrayal is not only an emotional deception, but also a satire of your sincere love, which makes people collapse to the extreme in an instant, and their hearts are full of resentment towards each other.

But this situation also reflects that you are in a lower position in the relationship, a party that is constantly giving and please.

The other person is in complete control of the direction of the relationship and enjoys your selfless efforts, but never considers your feelings and does not take any responsibility.

Human nature is complex, and it is only after going through the ordeal that we can see a person for who they really are, or understand the hidden motives behind their actions.

So, why would someone who doesn't love you still associate with you? The answer is actually quite simple.

1, enjoy your good, treat you as a spare tire.

Just like every car comes with a spare tire, some people will use someone they don't love as a "spare tire".

In the world of relationships, sometimes we meet people who are not our true lovers. But until a better candidate is found, someone will choose to spend time with such a person, treating the other person as a "spare tire".

They are carefully calculated, and if they don't find the person they like, they will maintain the status quo with you. Once they find true love, they will not hesitate to abandon you.

They just enjoy your goodness and are accustomed to your selfless dedication to fill their loneliness and emptiness. They see you as the spice of life, not a necessity.

This type of person doesn't have to be you, but because you're the best for them and easy to control. Therefore, they are happy to enjoy it all.

In your relationship, they dominate and you are limited and humble. However, even if you try to do it, you won't be able to win their love.

Therefore, do not fantasize that you can be the real protagonist in their lives. After recognizing their place in their hearts, they should decisively give up this unequal relationship and stop the loss in time.

2, know your use value.

Even if they don't love you, that doesn't stop them from using you for their own ends.

Everyone has their own value. If your value happens to be what they crave, then they will hold on to the opportunity and will not let it go easily.

In relationships, they may behave very modestly to win your favor while secretly evaluating how to use your value for their own ends.

For example, some people will use marriage to gain the value of their partner, seeing their partner as a stepping stone on their way to success.

When you still have use value, they will be kind to you in every way; But once you've lost your value, they'll show you their true colors and show you their ruthlessness.

This type of person is a complete egoist who hurts you for the sake of profit, without any regard for your feelings, and may even see you as a tool to achieve your goals.

Once you lose your usefulness or they find a more valuable purpose, you become a "waste" that they throw away, even when you are sold.

3, as an object of emotional sustenance.

Some people have only loved one person in their lives, and their subsequent partners will become the shadow of that unforgettable person.

After separating from their original lover for various reasons, they closed their hearts, but they longed to regain the lost love.

When they meet someone who is similar to their old love, they will see you as a shadow of the other person. They may be good to you, but that kind of good is based on their own perception, not necessarily what you need.

For example, if you like apples, he gives you pears – the fruit that the person he once loved loved did.

If this person can keep the past deep in their hearts and maintain a superficial intimacy with you for the rest of their lives, as long as he hides it well, you may still think that this is his nature.

The problem, however, is that this "white moonlight" complex tends to make you an object to be exploited. Once he has the possibility of rekindling an old relationship or finding a new emotional sustenance, you will be eliminated.

In real life, everyone wants to be treated fairly. But because people don't love you, it's hard to see through the behavior of those who don't love you pretending to be close to you.

The reason why people who don't love you associate with you is because of selfishness and profit.

Because of their selfishness, they only care about their own needs, whether they really love you or not, as long as they can take advantage of you, they will do it.

Therefore, it is recommended that everyone must get to know each other well before deciding to invest in a relationship to ensure that they are compatible with each other before making a decision.

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