Sun Baoqin, it's too suffocating.

她在大庭廣眾之下，半點不給丈夫留顏面，生生把劉得寶逼到去投河自盡。

Some people are not bad and don't be stingy with giving, but she is really not a good lover or a good family, because of her character and temper, she can really ruin two families.

I have to say that the failure of Liu Lina's marriage has a lot to do with Sun Baoqin:

• Look at Liu Lina's appearance of "caring too much" about Shen Qing, and then look at Sun Baoqin's confinement of her husband, it is too similar.
• Sometimes Envy becomes an enmity, Sun Baoqin takes care of some things of the Shen family, although she is kind, but she loses her sense of proportion, others are not grateful, and she is still sad.

Get along with others, whether it is a lover or a family member, you can pay less, but don't complain while paying, make yourself full of resentment, and force the other party to almost suffocate.

Sun Baoqin and Liu Lina are both good people, they both love their families, and they pay too much for their families, but noIt doesn't matter if it's love or marriage, it's never about giving more and getting happier.

Men have dignity, no matter how many men they have, they all want a face.

When you choose a man who is not so capable, since you have chosen, you will appreciate it, you will be content, and you will not choose, look down on it, and complain.

Watching "The Second Half of My Life", the character of Sun Baoqin is difficult to be liked. Her firepower is too strong:

• She was able to force Shen Zhuoran to hide in the woods in the rain, and she didn't even dare to go home.
• She can intervene in the lives of her daughter and son-in-law without any measure, and her words are rude and unabashed.
• Even if her daughter's father-in-law wants to find a partner, she has to participate in the whole process and interfere in all kinds of ways.

Think about Shen Zhuoran and Shen Qing's avoidance of her, and then think about how desperate and suffocating Liu Debao must have endured Sun Baoqin's belittlement and control for decades.

Liu Debao went to jump into the river, never because he couldn't think about it, but was forced to a dead end:

• In his hometown, in front of his ancestors, he lost face, and he felt ashamed of his ancestors in his heart.
• The only circle, the fishing circle, was also torn off the last decency by Sun Baoqin.

Many people say that people can't live for the sake of face, but people should always have a minimum of dignity in life.

Sun Baoqin is telling the truth, but the truth hurts. When she told the truth, did she really think about her husband?

Because this man has a low retirement salary, because this man has no ability, he feels that he owes himself and his daughter, so he can wantonly belittle and insult.

A man earns little money, and all his advantages disappear.

Liu Debao, a man with a pension, is not even qualified to control the family's 5000 yuan.

How inconceivable this is.

Why is Liu Debao so easily deceived, because he lacks a sense of recognition.

"The Second Half of My Life" is a happy ending, but if Sun Baoqin has always been like this sense of insignificance, then it will not be good for her husband Liu Debao or her daughter Liu Lina.

In life, never let yourself become a "thankless" person because of your emotions and temper, which is too unwise and hurts others and yourself.

In this ambiguity between Shen Qing and Ace Li, Shen Qing is the biggest winner.

A very clear point, the ambiguity between Ace Li and Shen Qing is true.

Because of Shen Qing, Ace Li will value Shen Qing's company so much. No matter how selfless she behaves, people are emotionally partial.

Because of Ace's persistence, Shen Qing's company was invested and succeeded. Ace Lee was suspended for investigation and finally returned to his hometown.

"The Second Half of My Life" is a happy ending, Liu Lina and Shen Qing get back together, but I have to say that Ace Li will always be a strong stroke in Shen Qing's life.

In order to send Ace, Shen Qing didn't want to answer Liu Lina's call at all.

In Shen Qing's heart, he and Ace are the soul resonance, and Ace is the one who can really fill his soul.

And Liu Lina is just a partner in the family, and love has long been wiped out in the quarrel between the two. Shen Qing never thought about divorce, and he also knew Liu Lina's dedication, but if he didn't love it, he didn't love it.

Here I have to say, Liu Lina's awakening:

She finally didn't hold Shen Qing tightly and didn't let go, she took the initiative to choose to separate from Shen Qing.

When one of them is tired of a relationship, instead of grabbing hard and turning himself into a resentful woman, it is better to let go, let go, and separate for a period of time, to try to live on his own, and also give the other party a space.

In Liu Lina's marriage, Sun Baoqin set a very bad example for Liu Lina.

Liu Lina's marital anxiety stems partly from Shen Qing's indifference, and partly from her mother Sun Baoqin's provocation.

Sun Baoqin can't wait to treat Liu Debao as a son and supervise every movement of her husband.

And Sun Baoqin also asked her daughter Liu Lina to manage Shen Qing like a son.

Sun Baoqin's experience in managing marriage is: while controlling, persecuting, and paying for the family, she puts herself as a resentful woman, and makes others have to be grateful through giving.

Liu Lina pursued everything as a mother, kept giving, constantly wanted to be loved, and wanted to make up for her too much by being loved.

In fact, Liu Lina in that state will not be happy no matter who she is with, because she has lost herself and finds the motivation to be happy through others.

But when her mother forced her father to commit suicide by jumping into the sea, when Shen Qing's indifference to her reached the extreme. After learning the hard way, she came to her senses. Instead of tormenting each other like this, it is better to separate. Instead of wanting Shen Qing to love her, it is better for her to love herself.

Only when people are themselves, only when they do not prove themselves to others, but accept themselves calmly, will they really be wonderful and happy.

The drama "The Second Half of My Life" has come to an end.

In the finale of this drama, what I want to say most is not love, not family, but friendship:

The happiest and most redeeming thing about Liu Lina is that she has a friendship from beginning to end.

It was an exit in her marriage, which gave her a way out and another courage. Therefore, at the end of the finale of this drama, Liu Lina's most exciting scene is to be with her girlfriends and enjoy life.

Middle-aged girls, please give yourself happiness at all times, instead of waiting for others to love you through giving, humbling, and persecution.

May you, when you reach middle age, still be able to turn the tables against the wind and ride the waves.