It is inevitable that there will be unsatisfactory problems in life, whether it is complaining or crying, it will not really solve the problem.
Sometimes when we wake up in the middle of the night, we may fantasize that we can have someone else's life, thinking that we will be able to live a better life that way.
However, the reality is cruel, and even if we do own someone else's life, we may not necessarily be able to live better.
I once watched a TV series about a girl who did not hesitate to change faces with her good friends in order to live a good life. She originally thought that as long as she had that beautiful face, she would get everything she wanted. At first, she did get her wish, but the desire is endless. In order to satisfy more desires, she began to do more and more evil deeds, and eventually went to destruction.
There are countless paths in life, and our choices will determine the direction of the future.
Even a good hand can be broken, let alone life? Wanting to be the person you want to be is not something that can be achieved by soul crossing alone, but requires daily hard work. Otherwise, even if you really become her, you may not be able to live her life well.
Life is not a novel, and you can't have someone else's life simply by changing your face or body.
So, instead of envying others, try to be that kind of person.
In this world, the only thing that will not betray you is yourself.
Rather than fantasizing that the people around him can lift themselves up after becoming rich, it is better to rely on their own efforts to pursue success.
Although this road is not easy to follow, as long as you are willing to calm down and learn and continue to accumulate knowledge, you will definitely have the opportunity to change your fate.
Opportunities are fleeting, and only by being fully prepared can we seize the opportunity to change our fate.
However, there are many people who say that they want to learn, but there are very few people who can actually calm down and study well. Many people are easily distracted by external factors in the learning process, making things that could have been accomplished with a little more perseverance out of reach.
It's not that you can't do it, it's that you don't want to do it with your heart.
Always find various reasons to give up: "If you can't do it, forget it", "It's okay to do it tomorrow", "If you can't do it anyway, it's better not to do it"...... These excuses make you forget that giving up now will make your future self suffer.
Maybe one day when you look back on your day and give up today, you will regret that you didn't "hold on a little longer" in the first place. It's a pity that there is no regret medicine in life, and some things become a reality once they are done.
We can't change the past, we can only change the future. Instead of worrying too much about what the future holds, start changing now. When you are confused and helpless, learning is the best nourishment. As long as you calm down and study hard, everything will gradually get better.
When we were young, we fantasized about what we were going to do when we grew up, but then we realized that dreams without a plan would not come true.
No matter how much we envision the future, if we don't put it into action, it's just a pipe dream.
If you really want to change the status quo, you have to be brave enough to do it. Don't say "it's not the time yet" or "what if you fail", sometimes the more you think about it, the more you dare not do it.
A lot of things don't turn out until you try them yourself, otherwise it's just a matter of paper.
When we can't decide the outcome, all we can do is do what is in front of us and stick to our ideas and put them into practice. Although the result may be a failure, how do you know the final result without trying?
Instead of leaving too many regrets in your life, it is better to act first. Regardless of the outcome, at least we did our best and lived up to ourselves. After all, success or failure is a valuable experience.
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