Studies have shown that the seven-month-old fetus is already mentally active, and everything that happens after birth will have a very big impact on his physical and mental development and lifelong development.

Want to know what's going on in your baby's mind after birth?

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On the day and moment of the baby's birth, the mother became the focus of the whole family's attention, and after a long and intense labor pain, the baby was finally born.

At this time, the mother's body is very weak and needs the care of the family very much, and the family often puts the baby aside, putting most of the attention and gentle care on the mother, but rarely notices that the baby has also experienced a huge test.

Adults think that the newborn baby doesn't understand anything, just give him a warm little quilt, but for the young baby, leaving the mother's belly is like a wanderer leaving a warm and safe home.

He lived in his mother's warm body for the first ten months of his life, comfortable, safe, and carefree, never worrying about any harm.

However, suddenly one day, his originally comfortable life suddenly became very turbulent, inexplicably grabbed by a pair of cold big hands, pulled hard, kept squeezing, everything that cared for him disappeared in an instant, and when he opened his eyes, it was already a strange world, and he didn't know what was happening.

Immediately afterward, he was carried for a brief examination, weighed on the scales, and then wrapped in a quilt without temperature, and put it aside casually.

His heart was filled with fear, he couldn't speak, he couldn't stand, he couldn't express himself with any body language, and all his emotions converged into a loud cry.

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If parents do not prepare for the psychological care of the baby in advance, after the baby is born, the external environment and psychological care similar to the mother's internal environment will be subjected to different degrees of trauma, and this trauma will remain deeply in his subconscious, affecting his future growth.

He may appear irritable and crying constantly. After birth, babies generally have about 20-0 hours of sleep every day. After some babies wake up, they will always behave irritable, cry for no reason, look very painful, full of resistance and rejection of the external environment, that is, because the environment after birth is too cold, parents do not take care of his psychological feelings, he can not feel warm, can not feel the love of parents.

If he has not received adequate psychological care from his parents, the psychological trauma will become more and more serious, and he will be very insecure, and he may grow up to have psychological problems such as over-dependence on his parents and inability to establish a good connection with the outside world normally.

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Therefore, before the baby is born, we must be prepared for psychological care, so that he can still feel everything he once knew after birth, for example, let him be as close to the mother as possible, close to the mother's heart, and feel the mother's heartbeat, smell and sound; Let the room be mild and warm; Help him wear comfortable clothes and so on.

Give him loving touches and hugs, help him massage, relieve muscle pressure, help him do stretching exercises, move his limbs, feed him on time, often help him change his sleeping position, keep him comfortable, have a safe and warm sustenance psychologically, so as to gain a sense of security, and then can rest assured to adapt to a strange environment.

Talk to the baby a lot, when the baby is crying, pooping, and bathing, talk to him about everything that is happening around him, and if he shows resistance and irritability, you must comfort him gently and patiently.

You can also give the baby some prenatal music that he used to listen to in the mother's body, humming some more relaxed and cheerful tunes, gentle melodies can reduce the baby's anxiety, make the baby happy, enhance the feelings of parents and the baby, and at the same time, can also stimulate the development of the baby's hearing and language ability.

In addition, the father should try to be more considerate and care for the mother, avoid the mother's postpartum depression, let the mother maintain a happy mood, harmonious husband and wife relationship and family atmosphere, which is also conducive to the establishment of the baby's sense of security.

Proofread by Zhuang Wu