Shen Qing and Ace Li are full of "stealing".
Shen Qing is married and has children, and Ace Li also knows that Shen Qing is a married man. However, the two of them still took the ambiguity to the extreme.
In "The Second Half of My Life", Shen Qing, who was born in a scholarly family, interpreted the coldness and change of heart of middle-aged men to the extreme.
Shen Zhuoran fell in love with Lian Yilian a year after his wife's death, and Shen Qing, when his wife Liu Lina was still in her prime, her heart completely wandered.
He enjoyed the benefits of the Liu family, eating and occupying, but he turned his face ruthlessly, had no gratitude, and was full of disgust.
Shen Qing only listened to what Sun Baoqin said, but never reflected on what the Shen family had done.
Shen Qing was very disgusted with Sun Baoqin, so disgusted that he refused to be in the same space with her.
As long as he heard Sun Baoqin's voice, he was bored and wanted to escape.
Since the launch of "The Second Half of My Life", Sun Baoqin has become the "most annoying" character, too noisy, too indisproportionate, and too undignified.
但人人可厭煩孫寶琴，唯有沈青滿臉嫌棄，未免太過涼薄。
Because, Shen Qing is the biggest beneficiary of Sun Baoqin's "enthusiasm".
Shen's mother was terminally ill and lying on the hospital bed, so she came to see the Shen family's family of three:
The Shen family is a scholarly family, a family of three, all of them look high, they want to be decent, they want to be free, they want the spiritual world, but birth, old age, sickness and death need firewood, rice, oil and salt, and they need to be taken care of.
When the Shen family is all in charge, who is the main force to take care of Shen's mother?
It's Liu Lina, and Liu Lina's mother, Sun Baoqin.
The Liu family never owed the Shen family, but their only daughter Liu Lina married Shen Qing, and for the happiness of their daughter, the family was willing to serve the Shen family.
In this regard, although Sun Baoqin is noisy, her character is valuable. She completely regarded the Shen family as her own family, and she sincerely held it out, wanting her daughter and son-in-law to be happy.
And Shen Qing has such a mother-in-law, not only is there no gratitude in her words and deeds, but she also dislikes Sun Baoqin, an elder, the mother-in-law who should be respected the most.
I almost can't imagine how heartbroken Sun Baoqin must be when she learns that Shen Qing betrayed her daughter.
A sense of proportion is very important. But sometimes, the so-called sense of proportion is unbalanced, and it is not a willingness to pay to a certain extent.
Don't dislike Sun Baoqin, because she is a sincere person and a giver.
Between husband and wife, if there is no sex for a long time, they will be physically alienated and emotionally empty.
Liu Lina in "The Second Half of My Life" has been anxious and suspended since the first episode, and she is in a state of desperate giving.
After witnessing the love between her father-in-law Shen Zhuoran and Lian Yilian, she was eager to get something from Shen Qing's body, whether it was love or the warmth of her body.
But Shen Qing didn't want to touch her.
This is a kind of hidden pain in marriage. Especially, middle-aged couples, when the passion recedes, when the trivialities of life fill life. Especially, when Liu Lina was still a full-time housewife, she had no support for a sense of value in her career.
All her sense of worth began to stem from her husband's love and her son's growth.
However, in terms of her husband's love, she began to secretly lack. Shen Qing didn't have her in his eyes, he didn't throb at her, and he even suppressed a deep annoyance with her.
Shen Qing fell in love with Ace Li at first sight.
He started wearing perfume, started wearing new clothes, and started changing his running shoes. He didn't have a second to hug his longing wife, but he could refresh Ace Lee's circle of friends little by little, and he even knew the taste of the coffee that the other party drank.
Obviously, it was his father's girlfriend and girlfriend, all kinds of troubles, but he didn't dislike his father, but he hated his working wife and mother-in-law who helped.
After witnessing his father's late-age love one after another, he also began to move.
So, he still had to go on a business trip when his waist was twisted, so he changed the password of his mobile phone, so he began to have a "soul" love affair with Ace Lee.
Does Shen Qing want to divorce Liu Lina?
He never thought about it. He was just used to being too ruthless by Liu Lina, and he almost didn't take on too many family responsibilities except for money. He only felt the boredom of his family, but he did not know the family responsibilities that he needed to take on, taking care of his parents and raising his children.
當沈卓然想要給聶娟娟養老送終。
Shen Qing didn't think about it at all, who would take care of Nie Juanjuan.
And this is the saddest point of Liu Lina, when sincere dedication has become the habit of the other party, it is taken for granted by the other party, and there is no return for paying, only in exchange for more coldness and greater greed of the other party.
Shen Qing was physically tired of Liu Lina.
Even if Liu Lina becomes like this, it is all for this family, for him and his children, he is still tired of rejection from the heart.
He had a short-term guilt at the beginning, and then he was left with an overwhelming coldness, he no longer wanted Liu Lina's efforts and benefits, he wanted to want more, he just wanted to satisfy his greed and desires.
If Liu Lina didn't have a "motherly taste", would Shen Qing still get tired of her and betray her?
Actually, no matter what Liu Lina looks like. When people reach middle age, when life enters a period of burnout, both men and women will have a certain degree of boredom with their married life day after day.
And at this time, the contest between human nature and character began.
It is human nature to like the new and the old, and to cherish the people around you and thank the people around you for their efforts is character.
Shen Qing can appreciate Ace Li's talent and ability, but he shouldn't dislike and ignore Liu Lina, a good woman who loves him wholeheartedly and even pulls the entire family to give wholeheartedly.
The appearance of Ace Li accelerated Shen Qing's dislike for Liu Lina, and also highlighted Shen Qing's cold nature.
He didn't look down on his mother-in-law Sun Baoqin from his heart, and he felt that his wife Liu Lina was a copy of his mother-in-law Sun Baoqin.
The reason why he didn't want to touch Liu Lina at all was because his heart was full of disgust that he couldn't declare. In his eyes, his wife was vulgar, undignified, incompetent, and even hateful.
The greatest selfishness of man is to see only what he does not have, but never think carefully about what he has.
Shen Qing's lack of soul never stems from Liu Lina's roughness and lack of charm, but from his essential greed and coldness.
When Shen Zhuoran was lying on the hospital bed, when Liu Lina was cold, Sun Baoqin withdrew, and when Shen Qing really experienced everything Liu Lina had paid, he would truly understand how unworthy he was.
And how precious Liu Lina and Sun Baoqin are.
Sometimes, people may lose simply because they don't deserve it.
May we always have a heart of tolerance and compassion for those who are sincere and giving.
Because, it's about kindness, it's also about fairness.