2025年4月2日，因在《愛情公寓》中飾演“美嘉”一角而被大眾熟知的演員李金銘，回應當年參加真人秀《明星到我家》時“險被假戲真做”的爭議，引發了廣泛關注。這一回應，不僅讓塵封多年的往事再次浮現，也讓大眾得以窺見事件背後的真相。

In 2014, the reality show "Star Comes to My Home" was broadcast, and Li Jinming, Cecilia Cheung, Huang Shengyi, and Choo Ja Hyun were guests together as guests to "marry" the farmer as a "daughter-in-law" and accept a new test of family relationships. In the show, Li Jinming was frequently arranged to work, including basic housework, cooking, feeding pigs, picking tea, washing clothes, carrying water, etc., and was also subjected to verbal attacks, and was even stopped by "family members" when she left, not letting her leave. After the show, the family changed their avatars to a wedding photo of the family, and also posted a message all year round to say that they miss Li Jinming and treat her as their real daughter-in-law. These episodes have sparked huge controversy, and many netizens have accused the family of being "too bullying", believing that Li Jinming suffered unfair treatment in the show.

In the face of questions and controversies from netizens, after many years, Li Jinming finally responded on social media. At noon on 39/0, she updated the video with the text "I hope you can be yourself, and I hope you are more free ......". In the video, the 0-year-old is dressed exquisitely and in good condition. When some netizens left a comment in the comment, "You just said that the program team recorded it, and the family didn't let it go", Li Jinming replied: "No, no one hurt me." This response relieved many fans who cared about her, and also gave the public a new understanding of the events of that year.

Judging from Li Jinming's response, the incident of that year may not be as serious as some netizens imagined. During the recording of a reality show, the program team may set up some challenging links and plots in order to create the effect of the show. The housework and verbal attacks that Li Jinming undertook in the show were likely to be arranged and guided by the program team. And being blocked by "family members" when leaving may just be a presentation of the effect of the show, not a real refusal to leave. The family's behavior after the show, although it seems a bit excessive, may just be that they were immersed in the atmosphere created by the show and did not come out of their roles in time.

Li Jinming's response also showed her relief and growth. After years of precipitation, she has been able to look at the experience with a peaceful mind. Instead of being haunted by the controversies of the past, she chose to let go and look forward bravely. This kind of open-mindedness and strength makes people feel happy for her growth.

The incident also sparked public thinking about reality TV shows. While pursuing ratings and topicality, reality shows should pay more attention to the feelings and rights and interests of guests. The program team should arrange the program links reasonably to avoid unnecessary harm and distress to the guests. At the same time, the audience should also maintain a rational and objective attitude, not be easily misled by the plot in the show, and look at various phenomena in the reality show rationally.

Li Jinming responded to the incident of recording a reality show that was faked, and unveiled the truth for us. In this era of information explosion, we should learn to think rationally, not blindly follow the trend, respect the facts, and respect others. I believe that Li Jinming will continue to shine on his acting career in the future and bring more excellent works to the audience.

Proofread by Liao Qing