In life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of contradictions and conflicts. If we are always obsessed with it, we will let ourselves fall into troubles and pains. Therefore, learning to turn big things into small things and small things is a rare wisdom in life.

1. Let go of obsession in order to broaden the sky

"Let go of your attachments, and your heart will be free."

Many times, our troubles and pains stem from our own attachments. If we can let go of our attachments, we can be as relaxed as letting go of our burdens.

Attachment refers to a strong attachment to something or someone. When we become obsessed with something or someone, it is easy to fall into the inherent thinking pattern and cannot get out of it. This will lead us to fail to see the truth of things and make wrong judgments.

Only by letting go of obsessions can we look at problems with a more rational attitude and make more informed decisions.

Letting go of obsessions doesn't mean giving up pursuits. The real letting go is to let go of the obsession with the result, not to give up the pursuit of the goal.

When you feel annoyed or distressed, you may want to ask yourself if it is because you are too obsessed. If the answer is yes, then try to let go of your obsessions. You will find that your mood is suddenly brighter, and your life is better.

2. Learn to be tolerant in order to earn respect

"Tolerance is the most powerful force in the world."

Tolerance is a virtue as well as a wisdom. Learn to be tolerant in order to earn the respect of others.

Tolerance refers to understanding and tolerance of other people's faults or shortcomings. When we are tolerant of others, we are passing on kindness to others. This will make the other person feel that we are sincere and respectful, so they will be more willing to get along with us.

Tolerance not only earns the respect of others, but also makes one's life easier and happier.

Tolerance is not connivance, nor is it weakness. True tolerance is based on reason and principles.

When you encounter someone making a mistake, try to be tolerant of them. You will find that being tolerant of others will not only benefit the other person, but you will also benefit yourself.

3. 善於變通，才能化險為夷

“智者千慮，必有一失。 愚者千慮，必有一得。 ”

The world is impermanent, and plans can't keep up with changes. Therefore, we must learn to be flexible in order to save the day.

Flexibility refers to flexibly adjusting one's plan or approach according to changes in circumstances. When we encounter unexpected situations, if we can't adapt in time, it is easy to get into trouble. Those who are flexible will be able to make the most favorable response according to the actual situation.

Being flexible is an important survival skill and a rare piece of life wisdom.

Being flexible is not opportunistic or going with the flow. True flexibility is based on rationality and analysis.

In our daily lives, we should develop the habit of being good at thinking and constantly improve our analytical and judgment skills. This way, you can make more informed decisions when you encounter problems.

Conclusion:

Turning big things into small things and small things into small things is a philosophy of life and a kind of wisdom in life. With this wisdom, we will be able to walk more calmly and openly on the road of life.