Retirement is an important turning point in life, when the busy work suddenly stops and the noisy world suddenly quiets down.

Looking at the young people who are hurrying to work, they are no longer a member of this vast sea of people.

The old life that I once envied has become idle, monotonous, and boring.

At this time, I hope that a friend can chat with me to alleviate the loss in my heart.

After retirement, if you can make some like-minded friends, life will be fun and meaningful.

But there are also people who are retired and don't have a single friend, and these people often have these 3 problems.

01 Personality is more introverted

Introverts who like to be alone, don't like to socialize, and know very few people.

Now that they are retired, they have no common language with their friends at work, and gradually, they no longer have contact.

Because of their introverted personalities, they didn't dare to come forward to talk when they saw old people gathering to chat and play chess. So there are no new friends either.

My colleague Lao Li is such a person, he doesn't like to talk and don't like to socialize with people.

Recently, the unit organized an event, and he also went.

A colleague asked him, "Is it good for Lao Li to retire?" Lao Li said: "Don't look forward to retirement, retirement is really difficult!"

He said, "Every day is just sitting at home and watching TV, watching it for a day. I have nothing to say to my wife at home, and I don't know anyone when I go out for a walk occasionally. It's so boring to live like this! ”

The introverted Wang, without the company of friends, life has become very cold and boring.

After retirement, if you can't go out and open your heart, then you will be trapped in an invisible cage.

02 Maverick

After retirement, there are many people who live alone and have no friends around them, but their lives are still good.

They have their own way of life and don't want to be disturbed by the outside world.

They nurture their hobbies to their heart's content and focus on their inner pursuits.

They immerse themselves in poetry and the ocean in the distance, and enjoy every day of life.

Uncle Zhang, a neighbor, likes to be quiet and also likes to be alone. After retiring, Uncle Zhang fell in love with calligraphy.

In Uncle Zhang's eyes, he only likes calligraphy, and he doesn't want to participate in other activities.

Every day, Uncle Zhang's favorite thing is to sit at the desk, and every time he uses a pen, he makes Uncle Zhang feel comfortable.

Although he has no friends, Uncle Zhang's retirement life is still full and happy.

There are things they like to do, they have their own goals, and mavericks don't need relationships to fill their emptiness and loneliness.

Mavericks have learned to enjoy solitude, and that's how they live their best.

03 The world is sober

Useless socializing wastes our retirement time and lowers our quality of life.

It turned out that I was in the workplace and had to deal with useless social interactions. Now that we are retired, we have no need to socialize and can live the life we want.

Relative Xiaoli used to be an expert in the workplace, not only with strong work ability, good interpersonal relationships, but also easy to cope with various social situations.

Since her retirement, Xiaoli's life has changed dramatically, and she has devoted herself to taking care of the elderly and children in her family.

In addition to morning exercises and grocery shopping, Xiao Lidu stays at home. Even if a friend invited her to go out, she politely declined.

Again and again, she refused to party and drink parties, and her relatives felt as if she had changed as a different person.

In conversations with relatives, she said that she had long been tired of all kinds of useless socializing and liked the current peaceful life.

She saw the intrigues of society clearly, was tired of the role play of society, and just wanted to live a life free and leisurely.

Stay away from useless social interactions and take control of your own life in order to enjoy your own world.

When you retire, do you have any friends that is your own choice?

Having like-minded friends can give you spiritual encouragement and support, making your later life more colorful.

Without friends, indulge in your own spiritual world, focus on your own interests and hobbies, and live a relaxed life.

Introverts, retirement life is boring and lonely.

Mavericks, enjoy solitude, live a full and happy life.

A sober person in the world, tired of socializing, lives a calm and simple life.

Retired, some people endure loneliness and silently endure the boredom of life. Some people enjoy solitude and pursue an ordinary, quiet life.

The world is lonely, and after retirement, we must learn to be with ourselves in order to enjoy the beauty of being alone.