In our country, middle-aged women often have one common characteristic - that is, they are too themselves. Rather endure inconvenience than make the family feel the slightest discomfort, this is the selfless portrayal of the heart of almost all middle-aged women. If you look around, you will find that how many of the aunts around you can look exquisite and beautiful?

Some people don't even have a decent piece of good clothing, let alone take the time to dress themselves. In fact, what woman would want to become what others call "Big Mom" in middle age? After all, everyone has a beautiful side, and a little embellishment can actually bring out the beauty.

Dear middle-aged female friends, please always remember: love your neighbor before yourself. In this issue, we explore why mature women should choose high-quality clothing over cheap clothing, and why it is recommended to have perms over straight hair.

1. When a woman is old, why should she choose expensive clothes instead of cheap ones?

1. Clothing directly affects temperament and image

Clothing not only shapes a person's image, but also profoundly affects a person's temperament. How important is it?

"Chinese-style aunts" once became a derogatory term, and even entered the dictionary, mainly because their images were too cheesy and failed to meet the public aesthetics.

How does <1>cheap clothing pull down femininity?

(1) The temperament becomes philistine

People rely on clothing, and Buddha relies on gold. While clothing isn't the only factor that determines a woman's temperament, it does indirectly affect the impression you make.

For example, the following comparison chart visually shows the impact of different clothing on temperament:

The lady on the left exudes elegance and refinement, and is clearly tasteful; The lady on the right is more vulgar and lacks a sense of aesthetics and quality, so her temperament is also a philistine and shrewd calculation.

(2) The image is reduced to "big mother"

The term "aunt" is known to have a pejorative connotation, referring to middle-aged women who dress cheaply, casually, and with poor aesthetics. For example, the cheap clothing in the picture below is brightly colored and has complex patterns:

No matter how beautiful you look, this kind of outfit will only make you look too flashy and cheesy, and your image will be greatly reduced, which is no different from an aunt, and people will not want to go deep into your inner self.

< 2> three advantages of high-quality clothing

(1) Modified material

Needless to say, it makes sense that you get what you pay for. A little investment in high-quality clothing can better flatter the shape of a middle-aged woman in terms of design.

A good cut and high-quality fabric can not only highlight the strengths of a woman's body, but also subtly mask or reduce the shortcomings of the body.

(2) Add prestige

High-quality garments are often made with the finest fabrics and fine craftsmanship, which give the garment itself a noble and elegant temperament.

As shown in the figure below↓, whether it is the glossiness of the fabric, the feel, or the style and details, high-end clothing is much stronger than cheap clothing. Even middle-aged women wearing such clothes seem to be stained with the luxury of clothing.

(3) Better wearing experience

Not only that, but high-quality clothing is designed with the wearer's experience in mind. Whether it is the version or the choice of fabric, it will be more refined, so that consumers can wear it more comfortably and fit.

2. How do middle-aged and elderly women choose clothes that suit them?

<1 > feature of avoiding cheap clothing

(1) Poor fabric

In order to save costs, low-cost fabrics such as polyester fibers and other synthetic materials are used in cheap clothes, which are neither breathable nor sweat-absorbent, and are easy to make people feel stuffy and uncomfortable in summer, and may also have peculiar smells.

(2) Poor version

As shown in the figure below, the design of cheap clothing is often not precise enough, and too tight or too loose cannot modify the body shape well, and it is easy to expose body defects.

(3) There are many lines and the lines are chaotic

The rough manufacturing process of cheap clothing, with many threads and untidy threading is a common problem, which not only affects the aesthetics, but also may affect the wearing comfort and even lead to problems such as thread loss.

(4) The colors are fancy and not harmonious

In order to attract attention, cheap clothes are often paired with overly bright colors, but this can easily appear cheap and tacky, lacking in taste.

(5) Light and transparent

Although the thin fabric is cool in summer, the fabric that is too weak lacks texture and is easy to wrinkle and deform, which affects the overall appearance.

(6) Incomplete label information

Cheap clothes are easy to buy so-called "poisoned clothes", such as the black T-shirt pictured below, and there is not even a certificate of conformity, let alone other important label information.

<2> clothing is not always more expensive, the most important thing is to fit

(1) Choose clothes according to your body shape

While high-quality and expensive clothing brings a better wearing experience and quality assurance, everyone's body shape, temperament, skin tone, and daily activity needs are different.

If you blindly pursue expensive clothing, regardless of your own conditions, it can lead to unconfidence and discomfort.

(2) Choose according to financial ability

In addition, when choosing clothes that are suitable for you, you should also consider your financial ability and budget.

On a limited budget, choosing the right cost-effective outfit can also show confidence and elegance.

Second, in addition to clothing, hairstyle is also very important

1. Why is it recommended for middle-aged and elderly women to choose perms?

<1> to retouch the disadvantages

As women age, they may face changes in facial contour and hair volume, such as sagging facial muscles, loss of hair volume, etc. Perms can subtly modify these shortcomings.

>>Example: Miki Mom ↓

The face shape is slightly rugged and the hair volume is thin. But by cutting her hair short and curling it, she visually increased the volume and made the top of her head look more voluminous, thus masking the problem of hair volume. At the same time, the high cranial curls also optimize the lines of her rugged face, making it softer, smoother and fuller.

<2> image is more advanced

If middle-aged women have little hair, they will look close to the scalp if they are not taken care of, and there is no sense of refinement. Moreover, curly hair is usually more stylish and feminine than straight hair, which can better show the charm and personality of mature women. As you can see in the comparison chart below, the same person's curly hair style is significantly more stylish, elegant, and premium.

2. Common misunderstandings of perms among middle-aged and elderly women

<1> aunt is too old-fashioned

Perms don't just look good, and there are a lot of minefields to avoid. For example, there is insufficient communication with the barber and let it be done, and as a result, the traditional and old-fashioned "aunt roll" is permed, and the direct visual age is more than ten years old.

<2> blast head is too exaggerated

There is also a type of curly hair to avoid, that is, the "exploding head" that aunts prefer. The purpose of a perm is to increase the volume of your hair, not to make you a "golden lion king" overnight. As shown in the picture below, although this hairstyle increases the volume of hair, it is too exaggerated and does not conform to the elegant and stable temperament of middle-aged and elderly women.

3. Outfit + hairstyle is the key factor that determines femininity, just look at the comparison

> Comparison 1 --

is also short hair, and the same is wearing skirts, why is there such a big gap in temperament between Zhang Kaili and Huang Meiying? It's all about hairstyle and outfit. Huang Meiying's short hair is obviously lighter and fluffier, while Zhang Kaili's coarse and hard hair is too masculine, and the texture of the skirts of the two is completely different, one is high-end and the other is cheap, and the temperament is naturally very different.

The more you live, the more beautiful the model is the mother to be introduced below. Look at the picture to guess the age, guess what kind of photos of her are left?

In fact, this mother's temperament has always been very gentle, but the picture on the left looks more vicissitudes, with the twilight of the elderly and the lack of confidence in her own image. However, the image on the right clearly looks confident and natural, all thanks to the change in hairstyle and clothing.