When it comes to Chen Zihan, many people's first reaction is "she has acted in a lot of costume dramas". Indeed, she has created many impressive characters, such as Yin Li in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", with a scar on her face, but her eyes are stubborn and stubborn; or Guo Fu in "The Condor Heroes", who is short-tempered and brutal and willful, but she plays it well.

Now, she is 49 years old, and her acting career has been conscientious and conscientious, and she has filmed a lot, but she has never become popular. Compared with career, love life is full of twists and turns. She married Dai Xiangyu, who was nine years younger than herself, and the two decided not to have children. The outside world has never stopped questioning this marriage, the age gap, Dink choice, these topics seem to be forever unclear on them. Some people even asserted: "With such a big gap between women and men, and no children, can this marriage last?" ”

When he was in his twenties, Chen Zihan was in the entertainment industry and tried his best to fight for the role. heard that "The Son of Heaven" was going to be cast, she stayed up late to write several pages of character analysis, and squatted at the door of the director's conference room early the next morning, just to fight for an interview. Later, she got the role of Princess Pingyang, and the crew arranged to use a stand-in for the horse ride, but she was reluctant and went into battle in person, but she fell off the horse, her knees were blue, and she was so sick that she walked lame, but she still gritted her teeth and insisted on shooting.

Her hard work is no less than anyone else's, but the actors of the same period became popular when she acted in a play, but she was always hovering in "almost". Some people say that she looks mature and can't play a pure heroine, she doesn't believe in evil, she just played a "happy and mourning ghost" in "Mountains and Rivers Order", with cinnabar moles at the end of her eyes, and plain white clothes, which vividly played the beautiful and sad atmosphere. Only then did the audience realize that "Hey, this actor's acting skills are really good!" ”

's career hasn't been popular, and my relationship has stumbled. In her early twenties, she fell in love, and later found out that her boyfriend was actually on good terms with her best friend. She went to question, but the other party beat her up instead, saying that she was "entangled", which made her so angry that she cried in the room for several days.

Later, she dated the wealthy businessman Wang Yu and kept a low profile, but she didn't expect the group photo on her mobile phone to be exposed, and she was instantly scolded as "the little third who intervened in Zhao Wei's feelings". But in fact, when she and Wang Yu were together, Zhao Wei was single, and it was only after they broke up that Wang Yu and Zhao Wei came together. But under the storm of public opinion, Wang Yu directly blocked her in order to clear up the relationship, and didn't even give her a chance to explain.

During that time, she was disheartened and washed her face with tears every day, only to understand later: "If the other party doesn't take you seriously in the relationship, you have to stop the loss quickly, otherwise it will always be yourself who is hurt." ”

Until 2015, when she was filming "Pearl Earrings", she met Dai Xiangyu, who was nine years younger than herself. At that time, Dai Xiangyu was not very famous, but he always paid attention to her silently. When she was tired from filming, he handed over a bottle of water; Her costume was messed up, and he helped tidy it up. Chen Zihan was a little hesitant at first: "Sister and brother love, will it be discussed?" ”

Dai Xiangyu's attitude is very firm: "What is age, I just want to be good to you and make you feel safe." ”

After getting married, the two got along very realistically. once participated in the variety show "Housework Honor Student", when Dai Xiangyu cleaned the glass, he tiptoed high enough, but his hand shook, the vase shattered, and the water spilled on the ground; When mopping the floor, he twisted the mop too wet, and the water splashed. Chen Zihan watched from the side, crying and laughing, and teased while cleaning up: "He is a 'chaos maker', I am a 'chaos cleaner', the couple has to be like this, one makes trouble, the other laughs." ”

But after the show was broadcast, the comments of netizens were not friendly, and many people said: "This is a sister-brother love, it is clearly a sister with a younger brother." "Chen Zihan is too tolerant, this marriage must be her compromise."

In the face of these discussions, Chen Zihan was very open: "Living a life is not acting in a TV series, how can there be so many who suffer and who takes advantage?" He's willing to hand me a glass of water when I'm tired, and I'm willing to clean up the mess when he's in trouble, that's how we get along. ”

Regarding having children, there have been constant voices from the outside world. Chen Zihan's physical condition is not suitable for pregnancy, and after Dai Xiangyu learned about it, he took the initiative to comfort her: "It doesn't matter if you don't have children, we are doing well, better than anything else." ”

Later, Dai Xiangyu was also implicated in rumors, some people maliciously spread rumors about him "PC", he posted a certificate of no crime for the first time, and Chen Zihan also stood up to support: "I believe him, just like he believes in me." ”

In the final analysis, marriage is like a shoe, only you know if it fits or not. Let others talk about what they like, and know in your heart that the most important thing is to do it.