Did you know that the tone of tone of communication with your child is crucial? An appropriate tone of voice can determine a child's future personality and behavior. Let me share with you five effective tones.

First of all, the tone of discussion. This can cultivate children's calmness and composure in the face of problems. For example, if you are upset about something, we can choose not to do it, or you have a better idea and want us to make a decision together, trust your wisdom.

The second is the tone of trust. Such a tone can make children feel positive, optimistic and confident. You can say: I believe that your idea must have its truth, even if we are wrong, we can accumulate experience, and I fully respect your decision-making power.

Then there is the tone of respect. In this way, children can learn to be open-minded and know how to share. You can say to your child something like: Today my neighbor's brother wants to borrow your scooter, and I will ask for your opinion after school. If you don't want to, we can not borrow it, because it is your thing, and you have the right to decide, and we will respect you.

This is followed by an appreciative tone. This is a way for children to feel affirmed and confident and cheerful. For example, your efforts have finally paid off, your hard work has paid off, you have always been our pride, and we have seen your progress.

Finally, there is the tone of encouragement. Such a tone can develop tenacity and courage in children. You can say to your child: don't be discouraged, failure is only part of success, we can learn from every attempt, maybe it will be better next time. Edison's invention of the light bulb didn't succeed at the first time, let's work together and we'll support you no matter what the outcome is.

The above five sentences and five tonesYou can try to communicate with your child to see what changes will occur after a period of time. Remember that every communication is an opportunity that can change your child's development.

Proofread by Zhuang Wu