Hello dear listeners. Today, I would like to talk to you about a topic that is both sensitive and universal, and that is the possible impact of parental divorce on children, and how we can communicate this change with our children in the most appropriate way.

In our daily lives, we occasionally see or hear stories about public figures such as Ma Yili and articles, which not only make us lament the impermanence of the world, but also provoke us to think deeply about family, love and responsibility. When such news comes into our field of vision again, I can't help but ask: what does the divorce of parents mean for children?

First, let's face the first question – what is the impact of parental divorce on children? Love is the sunshine and rain of children's growth, whether it is the love between parents or their affection for children, it is indispensable. Divorce is not only the end of the relationship between two people, but also may mean the shattering of the dream of a complete family in the hearts of the children. Although children are young, they can feel the warmth of love and can also perceive changes in the family atmosphere. When there is a rift in the family relationship, children tend to suffer more psychological pressure, and they may feel abandoned and unloved, which in turn affects the shaping of their personality and the development of their mental health.

So, in the face of such a reality, should we choose to hide and not let our children know the fact of their parents' divorce? This leads to the second question – should parents tell their children about divorce? My answer is that it should be, and it must be told in a respectful, understanding, and gentle way. Children are part of the family, they have the right to know the changes in the family, and they also have the ability to understand and accept it. Of course, this does not mean that we have to tell all the details to our children in one go, but rather explain them gradually and gradually, according to their age, personality and tolerance, in a language they can understand.

In this process, the most important thing is our attitude. We want our children to feel that although their parents no longer live together, their love for their children has never changed and will not diminish. We have to prove with practical actions that divorce does not mean a lack of love, but another form of companionship and protection.

In closing, I would like to say that whether or not divorce will affect children depends largely on how we adults approach this change. As parents, we have the responsibility to run this "business" together, and even if we are separated, we must maintain cooperation and communication for the healthy growth of our children. Let us use love and understanding to hold up a clear sky for our children, so that they can grow up healthy and happy under the nourishment of love.