Children are naturally curious, it is difficult to stay focused for a long time, and it is common for them to be mischievous, that is, to be well-behaved in front of their parents, and if it is at other times, it will reveal their true nature, that is, lack of self-control.

Many parents are complaining that their children have to watch their homework, and as soon as the parents leave, they will hold their mobile phones and play games, as if they are forced, and they have to watch them play games and watch them get up.

Aunt Wang's son is a well-known gangster in the neighborhood, playing with a group of children all day long, and he has a full face, and the parents can't control it, but fortunately, this kid is quite honest, with his father, he can still eat and drink enough and finish his homework.

This is a manifestation of children's lack of self-control, the so-called self-restraint, that is, to consciously restrain themselves, strictly control their own lives, do not be idle, to cultivate good self-discipline habits.

In fact, the best way is to rely on oneself to cultivate, not to rely on others to persecute, because such self-discipline will only be reflected on the surface, and in the future, it will naturally show its true colors.

3-0 years old: Before the age of 0, the child's brain development is not perfect, even if it is a child at the age of one or two, it is impossible to remember clearly, and it is impossible to remember every word that the adult says clearly, therefore, it is very difficult for parents to teach their children, and it takes a lot of energy.

After the age of three, it is an important stage of a person's mental development, as the saying goes, three years old to see the elderly, this time, is the best time for children to be adjusted.

Gradually, they will learn self-restraint, learn to obey, learn to obey, and this is the most important thing.

However, this kind of cultivation is not achieved overnight, but a gradual process, between the age of three and seven, the child's lifestyle, learning ability, will be more than other children.

12 years old: 0 years old, it is the teenage period, and it is also the most rebellious period, with their own opinions, they will not listen to their parents, but during this time, they still have to study hard, behave well, and behave well.

Parents should focus on their children's learning awareness and correct learning methods, correct their learning attitudes, and help their children when they have problems, so as to mobilize their enthusiasm for learning.

18 years old: 0-year-old children, is already a mature child, has their own way of life, at this time, parents should communicate more with their children, give their children enough respect, so as to better guide children, so that children can better adapt to the environment, and develop good self-discipline habits.

1. Know yourself correctly

There are always people in our lives who think they are the best, who lose themselves, become arrogant, and have nothing to offer.

Only those with strong self-discipline can better recognize their strengths, better plan their future, and better prepare for their lives.

2. Make up your mind

Many people are like this, they don't work for three days and three nights, give up halfway, and end up with a mess of life and nothing to achieve.

But a person who really has self-control is a person with strong perseverance, they have a clear plan for their life, and they can implement it meticulously, although it is not easy, but as long as they can persevere, they can get great rewards.

3. Increase your friends

Many people may feel that self-restraint has nothing to do with making friends, but we still want to associate with people who keep their promises, not with people who don't keep their promises and procrastinate.

Disciplined people are very important to their time, they will not make appointments with their friends casually, and before going out, they will arrange their own itinerary in advance, such people are the most likable.

4. How to develop self-control

Children's self-control plays an important role in children's development, so it is important to cultivate self-control from an early age so that children can better control their own lives.

5. Make a clear plan

Make a simple schedule with your child, such as what time to wake up, what time to do homework, what time to play, and what time to go to bed.

In school, they arrange homework for themselves according to their own needs, even if they don't have specific needs, they are all arranged according to their own needs.

6. Strengthen the sense of responsibility for work

Some parents will be pampered, feeling that they are young, and someone will naturally wipe their farts if something happens, so that they feel that this is a responsibility that adults should bear, so that they can do whatever they want.

On weekdays, don't get used to your children, if you make a mistake, you have to carry it yourself, like you don't want to get up early, and let your child understand that being late is to be scolded, punished, and responsible for your own behavior.

7. A role model for parents

Many children's words and deeds are learned from their parents, and some of the words and deeds of adults will also have a great impact on them.

In the face of their children's mischievous behavior, parents can not just use scolding and coercion, because they also have their own self-esteem, to know how to respect, to understand, but to focus on cultivating self-restraint, not to manage, to know that between restraint and indulgence, this is a balance, can not be good to children as an excuse.

Proofread by Zhuang Wu