He is a rare "peerless good man" in the eyes of outsiders, Tian Lei said in an interview: "I am obedient to her, laundry and cooking, and I work hard to make money outside." ”

Since being married for 20 years, Tian Lei has not treated his wife badly materially, the two of them have no worries about food and clothing, and they also have two lovely daughters.

And Tian Lei is also very honest, he didn't spend time drinking outside because he was rich, and he didn't be half-hearted, his mind was basically at home.

However, he is such a good man in the eyes of outsiders, Tian Lei's wife Qian Jiawen would rather choose to leave the house after 20 years of marriage, and insist on ending this marriage, which made Tian Lei puzzled.

Could it be that the wife who shares the bed has an outside heart? The wife told a shocking truth in the incomprehension of outsiders, since she got married for 13 years, she has been pregnant 0 times but has had 0 abortions, what is going on?

You must know that abortion is not only very damaging to women's bodies, but also will lead to habitual miscarriages and physical weakness in the future, and worse, abortion will also leave a strong psychological shadow on women.

Many women who have aborted their babies will live in remorse for the rest of their lives, because abortion is equivalent to killing their own children with their own hands. According to Tian Lei and outsiders, how could such a good man be willing to let his wife have 13 abortions in 0 years and suffer so many crimes?

It turned out that Tian Lei's family had always wanted a son, and during the 13 years of marriage, Qian Jiawen was pregnant with 0 pregnancies and had 0 fetals, and twice chose to give birth to a girl because the month was too big to have a fetus.

What's even more terrifying is that Tian Lei's parents think that all this is very reasonable, after giving birth to their daughter, Qian Jiawen found out that Tian Lei's family has a very serious patriarchal mentality, and even the Tian family is very partial to their son, feeling that all this is Qian Jiawen's fault.

Because Qian Jiawen gave birth to a daughter, her in-laws and husbands didn't want to see her, and Qian Jiawen not only had to endure the serious physical and mental damage caused by the abortion, but also suffered all kinds of humiliation and guidance from the Tian family.

Her husband didn't understand him either, but hurt her even harder, and forced her to have a son regardless of her life or death, all of which made Qian Jiawen feel physically and mentally exhausted.

Although materially, her husband has never treated Qian Jiawen badly, nor has he let Tian Jiawen do any housework, but home seems to have become a cold place for her.

She no longer felt any warmth and love at home, and she felt like a tool for giving birth to a child.

In the TV series "The Story of Rose", Fang Xiewen began to urge Rose to have a second child, in order to prevent Rose from going out to work, no matter how Rose told Fang Xiewen that she didn't want a second child.

But Fang Xiewen was the same as if he hadn't heard it, and even the two of them slept in separate rooms because of this, and finally got divorced, in real life, such stories are not uncommon.

Director Ang Lee once said, "I think in marriage, no amount of love is more important than respect." Respect is far more important than love. "Whether you are married or not, the premise is to find a partner who respects you.

A marriage that is not respected by the other party is very painful, respect the partner's efforts, respect the partner's shortcomings, respect the partner's feelings.