Recently, the mental internal friction has been too serious, and I accidentally opened "You Don't Have to Be a Flower", and I was cured in an instant! The author is Li Weichen, this book is like a gentle haven in a tired life, and the irritable heart is calmed down at once.

My grandmother's words in the book poked me in particular: "You don't have to be a flower, you are a seed, you just need to root down and grow into what you like." "Simple words, but full of wisdom of life. From the five chapters of cognitive awakening, self-protection, learning to relax, physical and mental development, and interpersonal communication, the author shared the story of her grandmother helping her get rid of mental internal friction, each of which is full of warmth and strength.

"Everything in the world can be abandoned, but loneliness is accompanied by life." In this fast-paced era, loneliness is always there. But as Setouchi Silence says, loneliness is not a bad thing, it is a necessary path to growth and self-discovery. When we are brave enough to enjoy solitude and enjoy ourselves, we can say goodbye to internal friction. Life is like a journey, it doesn't matter if you take the wrong path or run slowly once in a while, everyone has the same end point, so don't be overly anxious.

If you are confused, anxious, and entangled in the difficulties and troubles of life, you might as well open this book, follow the author's footsteps, feel the wisdom of grandma's life in the warm words, learn to accept yourself, heal yourself, and become whatever you want to become.