Resign and look at the world's female teacher: I have finished watching the world, and now I want to take a good look at the people around me!

Gu Shaoqiang live broadcast felt inn become teacher 辭職信 Daughter Bright Net Gu Shaoqiang The world is so big Letter of resignation resign I think Female teacher Yufu See the world toss The home of dreams Resign in style inn Little flowers The crystallization of love settle down

Updated on: 16-0-0 0:0:0

　　2015年4月13日，“世界那麼大，我想去看看”的10字辭職信火遍全網，而當年這封信背後的主人公——河南省實驗中學心理學教師顧少強，也因此成為無數人心中的“情懷偶像”。

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From an Internet celebrity teacher to a homestay owner, and then to a public welfare mentor, Gu Shaoqiang's ten-year experience has attracted the attention of many people. Along the way, what kind of scenery did she see, and how did she face the changes in her identity again and again. Recently, Gu Shaoqiang accepted an exclusive interview with Jingshi live broadcast.

Gu Shaoqiang was answering questions for the parents in the live broadcast room

From Teacher to Traveler: Love the uncertainty of life

Jingshi live broadcast: What kind of experience did you bring to you during the teaching period of Henan Experimental Middle School?

Gu Shaoqiang: Actually, I think it's quite cool, I didn't leave because the school didn't pay attention to the subject of psychology, looking back on the past 11 years, my professional ability has improved the fastest, and I have been supported by the school and recognized by students.

Jingshi Live: Then why do you want to resign?

Gu Shaoqiang: Every year, I give a class to the first year of high school and ask them to write a letter to the future. In that class in 11 years, I suddenly thought that I was already 0 years old and had a perfect experience of 0 years of teaching career. For me, there may be something missing, when I wrote the resignation letter, I was thinking, such an ordinary life, if you can walk more and see more in my lifetime, what a happy thing. I don't like to live the same, so it's time for me to say goodbye.

Jingshi Live Broadcast: Did you set off immediately after resigning?

Gu Shaoqiang: Yes, I was very casual at the time. You may stay in Chengdu for two or three days, and suddenly want to go to Chongqing to see friends, or you may decide to go to Hangzhou to see your favorite performance. I think life makes me especially happy because of this uncertainty, and if I knew today what I had to accomplish tomorrow, it would only make me feel like it was a task.

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From traveler to innkeeper: try new things and meet new people

Jingshi live broadcast: Why did you choose to settle in Chengdu to open an inn three months after resigning?

Gu Shaoqiang: I will think carefully about any decision I make, but it won't take too much time. The original intention of opening a guesthouse was to become friends with people who resonate with the same frequency, to listen to them share different stories, and at the same time, I was excited to learn something new. In the process of running the inn, I learned to cook and master many other skills, which I think not only does not get tired, but makes life more interesting.

　　經視直播：網上有種說法，開民宿因經營不善倒閉，還欠債60萬元？

　　顧少強：網上有很多傳言，甚至有人說我當時只剩3塊2，還有人要為我募捐，這些謠言我聽了覺得不可思議。我只能說，客棧還沒關，還在開，想住的可以去，更沒有負債60萬。其實我不在乎任何人對我的評價，我也沒有讓很多人為我負重前行，而是給予自己能量，擔起家庭和社會的責任，我女兒跟我很像，喜歡享受當下。

Jingshi Live: How do you get along with your daughter?

Gu Shaoqiang: She has been traveling with us since she was three months old, especially before she was three years old. She adapts quickly to each place and is particularly quick to settle in. Because I have been communicating with her in an adult way since I was a child, and I can talk about adult topics, she has a strong ability to express herself. I often say to her, "You're like my best friend, you understand me very well." ”

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From B&B Owner to Public Welfare Mentor: Spreading the Concept of Family Education and Doing Meaningful Things

Jingshi Live Broadcast: Why did you choose to transform into a family education live broadcast?

Gu Shaoqiang: Actually, when I opened the inn, I started to do free psychological counseling for people in need. Now I have returned to Zhengzhou with my daughter to accompany my mother and become an online anchor. "The world is so big, I'm back after reading it!"

The biggest sense of accomplishment every day is to pass on the concept of family education in psychology to more parents through public welfare live broadcasts to help them avoid detours.

Jingshi Live: Haven't you considered live streaming?

Gu Shaoqiang: Someone suggested to me, but I didn't bring any products. Actually, I don't rule out bringing goods, and I haven't considered it yet. I have a lot of options if I do something just to make money, but I prefer to do things that have social value and meaning. My daughter also often tells me that I am doing a great thing, and that she wants to become a counselor and help more people when she grows up.

The revelation and philosophy of life brought by the resignation letter

Jingshi Live: You did what many people didn't dare to do back then, do you have any advice for young people?

Gu Shaoqiang: I don't give advice to anyone, if you draw strength from these 10 words and push you when you are hesitant, I think it's a good thing. But if you just interpret it one-sidedly, it means that you haven't thought it through and are just blindly following.

Jingshi live broadcast: Is there anything you want to say to everyone? ?

Gu Shaoqiang: In the past ten years, I have been known by everyone because of this resignation letter, and when I walk in the crowd, I am still an ordinary person. But in the vast sea of people, I met a lot of souls and people who were just as interesting as me, and who shared the same ideas. If it weren't for these 10 words, we would probably pass by in this life. I hope that you will always have a heart full of curiosity about the world, accept all the people and things that appear around you, and move forward bravely, and there must be flowers in front of you.